Eating Out Vs. Eating at Home

Time was, not that long ago, when Clif and I ate out on a regular basis. During the week, I cooked dinner, but on the weekends we would eat out at least twice and sometimes more. We did this for a variety of reasons. As a food writer, I liked to check out various restaurants, and even though we limited our culinary adventures to an hour or so from Winthrop, Portland was included in our food travels. We would eat out socially, with friends and family. Finally, we ate out for the sheer fun of it.

But then the Great Recession happened. The salary went down, and the cost of food and fuel went up. Suddenly, it seemed that lunch prices had jumped to dinner prices, and dinner prices had correspondingly increased. In Maine, before the Great Recession, lunch was always well under $10, even in decent restaurants. Now, $12 and $15 are the norm. This means that lunch, including a soft drink and a tip, can easily come to a third and sometimes even half of our weekly grocery budget. (I do realize that fast-food restaurants such as McDonald’s or Burger King are significantly cheaper, but the food is of such poor quality that it still feels like a waste of money to eat at one of those chains.)

So we had to ask ourselves, is the price of going out to eat worth it? With some reluctance—we did enjoy eating out—we had to concluded it was not worth the money to eat in restaurants, and we have cut way, way back. While I am not a great chef, I am a decent home cook, and the meals I prepare are tasty, nutritious, and much, much less expensive than even lunch at a restaurant. Pasta dishes, soup, bean dishes, chicken in a Crock-Pot—I vary our meals so that in any given month there aren’t many repeats.

Nowadays, when I cook, I always plan on having leftovers, which means I only actually cook a few meals each week. (Thanks, Shari Burke, for encouraging this!) This week, for example, I had leftover cranberry chutney from a potluck at the home of our friends Margy and Steve. On Sunday, I put four large chicken breasts in a Crock-Pot, smeared the leftover chutney on the chicken, and let it all cook on high for about four hours. I served this with rice and corn, and there was plenty of leftover chicken and a tangy sauce from the drippings and chutney. The next night, we had wraps using the rice, some of the chicken, and the sauce. Still, there was enough for another meal, but on the third day, for variation, I made a pasta dish with broccoli, garlic, oregano, red peppers, chicken sausage, and a lovely lemon olive oil. Naturally, I made enough of the pasta dish for leftovers.

Occasionally, perhaps twice a month, we still do eat out. Most of the time it is when we meet friends, and we keep it inexpensive by going to a pizza place or to a Mexican restaurant, where we reluctantly pass on the Margaritas.

Would we eat out more if our budget suddenly increased? Perhaps a little, but only once a week because there is one other very good reason to eat mostly at home—the health benefits of home-cooked meals. From portion size to ingredients to the amount of salt I use, very few restaurants can match, health wise, what I cook from scratch.

So from now on, at home we will mostly eat, regardless of our salary.

 

Abundance, Obesity, and Health: Two (or Three) Questions But No Answers

Today in the New York Times, I read a piece by Mark Bittman in which he wrote about the correlation between money and food. “With a lack of money comes either not enough food or so-called empty calories, calories that put on pounds but do not nourish.” No argument there. Healthy food does indeed cost more than junk food, and if the intent is to buy as many calories as possible when the budget is tight, then that huge bag of store-brand potato chips certainly fits the bill.

The fact that good, healthy food is so abundant in the United States makes the situation even worse. Bittman continues, “In fact, it’s hard to imagine having a food supply as abundant as ours and doing a worse job with it.” Again, no argument. The United States is the land of plenty. Why should good food be out of reach for so many people?

In his piece, Bittman also writes about social justice, the marketing of junk food, and the lack of emphasis on food education. Bittman concludes that what this country needs is a national food and health policy, “one that sets goals first for healthful eating and only then determines how best to produce the food that will allow us to meet those goals.”

As I read Bittman’s article, two questions came to mind. The first, which I have written about in other posts, is this: Why was obesity the exception rather than the rule when I was growing up in the 1960s? I realize that my neighborhood in North Vassalboro can hardly be considered a broad sample of the times, but there was only one obese family on the road where I lived. Most everyone else was in pretty good shape. And here’s the thing: While gardens and home-cooked meals were the norm, we did not hold back with salty snacks and sweets. As I noted in a previous post, we ate sugary food with a gusto that would have made Shakespeare’s Falstaff proud.

We did play outside a lot—children, all the time, and adults when their work allowed. Could this be the difference? Could eating out also be a factor? Families today eat out much more than they did when I was child. Perhaps today’s families really do take in more calories than families did in the 1960s, despite the abundance of  salty snacks and sugary sweets available to us back then.

Anyway, I don’t have an answer to this one. Only the question.

The second question is even more complicated than the first and needs a bit of a backstory. We evolved on the savannahs of Africa where salt, sugar, and fat were very hard to come by. Therefore, it is no surprise that we have also evolved to crave salt, sugar, and fat. But the problem is that we no longer live on the savannahs. To borrow from another writer—I can’t remember her name—we now live in Candy Land where there are many, many temptations.

And this not just a problem in the United States. As wealth increases in countries such as China and India, so does obesity. Overeating is a human problem, not a Western problem. So how do we combat that? How do we overcome our natural tendency to gorge on fats and sweets? (For myself, I have developed a regimen where I eat healthy, low-calorie foods six days a week and splurge on the seventh. This approach helps, and I am more or less maintaining a healthy weight. )

Even though I don’t really have any answers, I feel as though these two questions must be asked: Why wasn’t obesity such a problem in the 1960s, and how can we deal with the natural tendency to gorge on salt and sweets?

And just for fun, we can throw in a third question: How does money and status affect obesity?

If we can address those questions, then we will go a long way toward addressing the problem of obesity.

 

A Potluck Filled with Creativity as Well as Good Food

Last Friday, Clif and I went to our friends Margy and Steve’s house for one of their snappy potlucks, which often have themes. This particular potluck was held not only to celebrate January’s full moon—the Wolf Moon—but also to celebrate Priscilla Jenkins’s years of service on the Winthrop Town Council.

There were about 15 of us in Margy and Steve’s large kitchen and dining room, made cozy and warm by a fire in the wood stove. I brought homemade crackers as well as cranberry chutney—also homemade—mixed with a red pepper jelly made by a friend of a friend. The chutney and red pepper jelly was spread on top of softened cream cheese that, in turn, was spread on the crackers. (Not too bad, if I do say so myself.) There were also quiches, salads, and the most delicious lentil soup—made by Ginny Geyer—I have ever eaten. The soup had ham, which gave it a lovely smoky taste—and homemade noodles. The soup’s smoky taste reminded me of the pea soup that Franco-Americans are so famous for. I had two bowls full, and I could have eaten more, except that I knew what was for dessert—Patty Engdahl’s homemade carrot cake, made in honor of Priscilla.

But before the cake was cut, a rather amazing thing happened—various people listed events that they were involved with and might be of interest to others at the potluck. Margy went first with PechaKucha Night in Waterville, Maine, on January 24 at 7:20 p.m. at the Hathaway Creative Center. For those unfamiliar with PechaKucha, here is Waterville Public Library’s description: “PechaKucha is a creative networking event for the entire community featuring diverse presenters faced with the same dynamic challenge: telling a compelling story in 20×20 (20 images showing for 20 seconds per image).” Winthrop’s very own Patrice Putman will be one of the presenters, and she will talk about her recent trips to Africa to help eradicate polio.

Margy also announced that a revised, updated edition of her book Talking Walls has been published, and there will be a launch party for the book at the First Friday Art Walk in Portland on February 7, from 5 p.m. to 8 p.m. at Mainly Frames. Talking Walls is a lovely, poetic children’s book that explores some of the great walls in various countries and the stories those walls tell. (I have this book in mind for a certain little beloved baby who came into this world a few days ago.)

Clif went next, speaking about the Cinema Exploration film series that will be running every other Saturday from now through March at Railroad Square Cinema in Waterville. (Clif and I are on the steering committee of the film series.) On January 25, the Georgian movie In Bloom will be shown, and it’s a harrowing but moving look at being a young woman in a country that was once a part of the Soviet Union.

Since he had an audience, Clif also took the opportunity to promote his own photography exhibit—Portals: The Mystery of Windows and Doors. The exhibit will be at Railroad Square in Waterville sometime the end of February, either the 20 or 27. (When I know the exact date, I’ll let readers know.)

Finally, Rita Moran told of the play—Doubt—that the Monmouth Community Players will be performing at Cumston Hall in Monmouth, Maine, from January 24 through February 2. The tickets are very reasonably priced—$10 for seniors and students and $12 for adults.

“Wow!” Margy said, when everyone was done. “No cabin fever in Winthrop!” No, indeed. This just goes to show how even small, rural towns can have plenty of creativity.

Then there was cake as we celebrated Priscilla’s 6 years of service on the town council. We applauded her, we made an acrostic with her first name, and we dubbed her Queen of Winthrop, at least for that day.

Many thanks, Priscilla!

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Friday, January 17: Bits and Bobs from the Internet

This will be a quiet Martin Luther King weekend at home, where Clif and I will spend time working on our various projects, which include fixing the gate to our backyard, refurbishing the bike we found at the transfer station, getting photos ready for an upcoming exhibit at Railroad Square Cinema, and that perennial chore—decluttering. Naturally, the weather is supposed to be calm. Doesn’t it just figure that on a weekend when we are staying close to home, the roads will be clear and dry? Tonight, we will be going to a potluck at the home of Margy and Steve Knight. I will be bringing homemade crackers and a cranberry and hot-pepper jelly chutney on cream cheese. 

 

From NPR: Sometimes, it’s all right to play with your food.

From Eating Well: Six low-calorie soup recipes for these cold winter days.

From the Portland Press Herald: Let them eat pie—sample 50 pies in 3 hours. The event is Pies on Parade on January 26 in Rockland, Maine, and it’s a fundraiser for Area Interfaith Outreach Food Pantry.

From the Guardian: “Toast is trendy.” That’s right. Toast. It seems that toast bars are the new rage, and some of them charge $4 per slice.  Now, I am a toast lover from way back, but at those prices, I guess I’ll continue to make my own bread and my own toast.

From the New York Times and Mark Bittman: A video featuring The Scramble: A Simple Greek Lunch. I could have a plateful right now.

Liam’s Birthday

img_5065Today, our dog, Liam, is nine years old. Happy birthday, Liam! In the works are a few special treats and a nice long walk.

Even at nine, Liam is still a fast runner and light of foot. This summer, when Clif’s coworkers came over for a barbecue and saw Liam for the first time, they couldn’t believe what a “mature” dog he was.

I remember bringing Liam home as a puppy and how he hid under the table because he was scared. I remember him sitting in the kitchen and his head going back and forth as he watched the pendulum on the clock. I remember him cuddled across Shannon’s chest as she sat on the couch.

Liam, may you be light of foot for many, many more years.

A Weird Weather Weekend: Part II—A Warm Walk on the Beach

img_5058In yesterday’s post, I wrote about the ice storm we had on Saturday and how, despite the slippery roads, Clif and I drove 25 miles to go to a movie at Railroad Square Cinema. And we weren’t the only ones at the Square.

But what a difference a day can make. By Sunday, the sun was out, the sky was blue, and it was warm—around 50 degrees at the little house in the big woods. I jokingly suggested to Clif that it was time to bring out the summer clothes.

With nary a thought about icy roads, we headed to South Portland to visit with Shannon. She would make lunch for us, and Clif would measure for shelves he plans to make for her kitchen. What a lovely lunch Shannon made—a sweet and savory squash soup with spicy chickpea croutons, homemade biscuits, and a salad. (Shannon found the soup recipe on a blog called My New Roots.)

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Shannon had suggested that if the weather allowed, we might go for a walk on Crescent Beach in Cape Elizabeth. With the sun shining and the temperature holding at 50 degrees, the weather certainly allowed, so with dogs in tow, off we went to Crescent Beach. When we reached the town parking lot, we all laughed. It was nearly full, with only a few empty parking places. After all the storms and the extreme cold, it seemed we weren’t the only Mainers keen to get outside and feel the warm sun on our faces.

As an extra bonus, the tide was out, and the wide beach sparkled ahead of us. Blue sky, puffy clouds, the deep blue sea, jagged islands, the sound of the waves—I walked as if in a dream. What a great pleasure it was to stroll on the beach and not feel as though my face was going to freeze and shatter. Only a few days ago, when I had taken the dog for a walk, I had worn a headband as well as a hat, a neck warmer, my heaviest coat, and leggings under my pants. Now here I was, walking on the beach without a hat and gloves. It was sheer bliss.

Afterwards, Shannon would remark in an email: “It was quite a wonderful thing to go walking on the beach and be so comfortable in January! I felt like I got recharged and rejuvenated afterwards!”

Yes, indeed. We all felt as though we had been given a gift, and so we had.

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A Weird Weather Weekend: Part I—The Ice Storm and the Film Series at Railroad Square

img_5069As the title of this post suggests, we had a weird, weird weekend with the weather. On Friday night and into Saturday, there was another one of those events that we Mainers love so well—an ice storm. Fortunately, this one didn’t last very long, and it didn’t knock out the power. Nevertheless, when we got up on Saturday, there was a thin coat of ice outside on everything—the steps, the driveway, and our road.

To console ourselves, Clif and I scarfed down a few of Mrs. Dunster’s chocolate sugared donut holes as we debated the merits of staying home or going to Waterville for the first film in the Cinema Exploration film series at Railroad Square. (Waterville is about 25 miles away.) Now, anyone with a lick of common sense would have resigned herself to staying home for yet another weekend and working on one of the many projects that are pending. But Clif and I were just plain tired of having to cancel our plans because of bad weather. Thus the debate.

“Well,” Clif said. “It’s supposed to warm up by noon.”

“And the roads won’t be so slippery then,” I finished. When two people have lived together for nearly forty years, they tend to finish each other’s sentences.

“Let’s try it,” Clif said. And try it we did, skittering down the steps, slipping across the driveway, and skidding up the Narrows Pond Road, where a cop’s car was parked at the top, presumably to discourage anyone from sliding down the road right into the Narrows Pond.

“This is terrible,” Clif said.

“It is,” I replied. “But let’s see how the main roads are.”

The main roads were not great but passable, salted and sanded enough so that a trip to Waterville seemed possible and not suicidal. Therefore on we went, making it to Waterville in pretty good time. And here’s the amazing thing—we weren’t the only nutcases that had braved the slippery roads to come to the film series. There were 15 of us for the morning show and another 15 for the noon show. I expect a lot of people felt the way we did—they were tired of being cooped up inside because of bad weather.

After the film—What is Cinema?—we had lunch with our friends Alice and Joel at the Mexican Restaurant adjoining Railroad Square. We all agreed that What is Cinema? was a good movie and that the series was off to a great start. We had a long, leisurely lunch, and by gum, by the time we had finished, it had indeed warmed up. While it was raining rather hard, the roads were more than passable, free of ice and not particularly slippery.

We made it home without incident, where we were greeted by the dog and the cats. We turned up the heat, made tea, and settled on the couch with our respective books. The orange cat was on my lap, the dog beside me on the couch, and Little Miss, the black and white cat, was at the other end. (We have a long couch.) The rain beat on the roof, and we were glad to be home. But we were also glad that we had gone to the film series.

No matter how much you love home—and I love mine very much—it is good to go out now and then. Especially this winter, when we have had to stay inside so much because of bad weather.

Friday, January 10, 2014: Bits and Bobs from the Internet

Cold, cold, cold, and more bad weather predicted for the weekend. So what’s new? Our weekend is chock-full of plans—going to the movies, pizza with friends, a trip to Shannon’s in South Portland so that we can measure for shelves in her kitchen. What will have to be canceled? Only time will tell. In the meantime, we dream of spring…

From the Portland Press Herald: Another great piece by Gillian Graham about hunger in Maine and two volunteers, Dick and Carol Ogden, who volunteer at the food pantry in Alfred, Maine. They also organize the monthly Good Shepherd Food Bank Senior Food Mobile event, where 12,000 pounds of food are given in 90 minutes. “If more people could see something like this, maybe hearts would soften a bit,” he [Dick] says.

From the New York Times: Paul Krugman’s take on the war on poverty. Believe it or not, there is some good news.

From the World Resources Institute: The Global Food Challenge Explained in 18 Graphs. There is a lot of information in this piece, but it’s presented very clearly,  The global food challenge is a huge one, made worse by the pressures of climate change.

From Huffington Post: “With the money they made in 2013 alone, the world’s richest people could have paid to feed the world’s hungry school kids 163 times over.”  So why don’t they? A little greed problem? A little empathy problem?

And, on a lighter note…

From Yahoo Food: Soy-Maple Broiled Tofu. I’ll definitely be trying this one at home.

 

Elders in Maine Struggling with Food Insecurity

Recently in the Portland Press Herald, there was an excellent piece about Jim and Nancy Pike, two Maine senior citizens who are struggling to stay afloat on their social security benefits, which come to about $15,000 a year. Normally, I would feature this on Friday, the day I reserve for posting interesting links, but the couple’s story was so compelling, so much a sign of our times, that I thought it deserved a post all on its own.

According to Gillian Graham’s article, Jim and Nancy Pike, who are 65 and 77 respectively, have worked hard at various jobs. She had a child daycare in her home for 30 years. He cut wood, took care of other people’s properties, and drove a truck for Meals on Wheels. They grew their own vegetables, cooked their own meals, made their own bread, and raised a big family. Nancy “worked until she was 59 and was forced to stop after she was diagnosed with congestive heart failure.” Jim’s last job was as a handyman at a motel, and between what he earned and what Nancy received from Social Security, they were able to make ends meet. But then Jim had a heart attack and a stroke, and he was unable to work.

So now they have joined the ranks of food insecure seniors. As Nancy puts it in the article, “We’re broke before the end of the month.” Because the Pikes are at the poverty line, they do qualify for $66 a month in food stamps and are eligible for other programs, including the Commodity Supplemental Food Program for low-income seniors. (The latter is a federal program.) The Pikes also go to their local food pantry. She clips coupons, they shop the sales, and they don’t buy processed food. They get by, but just barely.

Naturally, my heart goes out to the Pikes, who must live on such a small amount of money. But what really floors me is the cuts Congress made in the Commodity Supplemental Food Program for low-income seniors. (Fortunately, the Pikes are still enrolled in this program.) In 2013, the program was reduced by nearly $5.2 million. This meant that 35 Mainers had to be cut from the program, and the year before 60 people were cut. Not surprisingly, there is a waiting list of 1,200 for this program.

How can Congress cut programs such as this? How can they justify reducing benefits to poor elders who are no longer able to work for a living? I would love to hear the explanations. On second thought, maybe I wouldn’t. Maybe it would be such a load of bull that it would be hard to take.

One of the richest countries in the world can’t afford to support seniors who can no longer work? Really?

I don’t believe it. As the late, writer Tony Judt observed, “Ill Fares the Land.”

 

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