On Saturday, we were supposed to get together with Shannon and Mike to celebrate birthdays—mine and Clif’s—at Stonewall Kitchen in York, Maine. But you know what they say about the best-laid plans. A nor’easter—in September!—roared up the Eastern Seaboard. It slammed the coast, as nor’easters always do, and Shannon and Mike, who live in the Boston area 300 miles to the south, quite sensibly canceled. A good thing, too. Winds reached 60 miles per hour; poles and wires were knocked down, along with an occasional tree. And, unsurprisingly, there was flooding.
But in central Maine, where we live, we barely got a sprinkle. (In fact, we would have liked more rain.) We decided that even though we couldn’t celebrate with Mike and Shannon, which was disappointing, we could do a little something on our own on Saturday.
So off we went to Wei-Li Restaurant in Auburn, about a half hour from where we live, and well out of the Nor’easter’s path. Wei-Li is one of the best—if not the best— Chinese restaurants in the area, and it is our number one choice for special occasions. Somehow, the food tasted better than usual, and while we were sorry not to get together with Mike and Shannon, we certainly enjoyed our meal.
Sunday was Clif’s actual birthday, his 75th, and naturally, we had to do a little something on that day, too. To start with, I cooked Clif a Sunday-morning brunch,
In the afternoon, we went to the cinema to see a re-release of the 2019 Avengers: Endgame. (It is the sequel to Avengers: Infinity War.)
Endgame, featuring the superhero team the Avengers, is surprisingly deep for a Marvel Comics movie and as relevant as ever. In brief: The powerful Thanos (Josh Brolin), an Eternal, decides the universe is out of balance, and to fix this, with the help of the Infinity Stones, he wipes out half the population of every habitable planet, including, of course, Earth, the focus of the movie.
In Infinity War, Thanos achieved his goal, and in Endgame, there is worldwide mourning on Earth as family members grieve the disappearance of loved ones who instantly vanished. Endgame explores the grief in a moving, unrushed way, and the movie is long on feelings and short on battle scenes, which is just fine with me.
As I watched Endgame, it occurred to me that this movie is a rebuke to people who long for an apocalypse, a good cleansing of humanity. In real life, there are more of these people than you might think, both on the far right and the far left. Some of them are very rich indeed and in positions of great power. I suppose when such people yearn for this great cleansing of humanity, they imagine their families and loved ones will be spared. It won’t be their mothers, daughters, sons, and fathers who will be crushed and hurt. Oh, no. They will be safe in underground bunkers or on faraway islands or in space. Because they are the deserving chosen ones, they will be spared.
Endgame makes it perfectly clear what havoc this kind of thinking—hubris really— wreaks. It is up to the Avengers, among them Iron Man, Captain America, and the Hulk, to try to reverse Thanos’s damage.
Alas, in real life, we are short of Avengers, and the people opposing the proponents of various apocalypses seem outmatched and outspent. We can only hope that those who love this planet and want a more humane outcome will prevail.
After such a deep, dark movie, you might think our spirits would have been too low for more celebration. But you would be wrong.
Not ready to call it a day, we went to Margaritas in Augusta for drinks and snacks and had a good time discussing the movie.
Here is the birthday boy. I know I might be biased, but I think Clif still looks pretty darn cute at 75.
Happy birthday, Clif!
Addendum: We plan to get together with Shannon and Mike on Saturday, October 3. Fingers crossed there are no bad storms to skunk our plans.










































