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Mike’s 30th Birthday Tempura

The birthday boy
The birthday boy

 

Last weekend was a big one for us—we celebrated the 30th birthday of our son-in-law, Mike. Let’s just say that from my vantage point, 30 seems like a very long time ago.

“Do you remember turning 30?” I recently asked my husband, Clif.

“Not really,” he answered.

“Neither do I. ”

Nevertheless, 30 is one of those milestone birthdays. Ordinarily, we are quite frugal when it comes to birthdays, and we have even been known to slip in a “gently-used” present or two into the mix of what we give. (The gently-used present is usually a book.) But on milestone birthdays we splurge, and for Mike’s 30th birthday, we all chipped in to buy him a Nikon camera. As his family also chipped in to buy the camera, we were able to get a nice one for Mike, who has a great eye and has been taking terrific shots with just his phone. I can’t wait to see what he does with an actual camera and a good one at that.

Our daughter Dee came from New York to join us, and what a great meal we had at our daughter Shannon and Mike’s home. The centerpiece for appetizers was homemade pretzels, baked fresh as we sat at the dining room table. As Shannon noted, it’s amazing how something so simple can taste so good. The pretzels are boiled first and then baked, like bagels, which means they are not just twisted bread. Soft, chewy, warm, salty and dipped in melted cheese—the jarred kind that I don’t usually like but somehow seemed perfect for those pretzels. I am embarrassed to admit how many I ate, so I’m not going to do so. Let’s just say that after those pretzels—along with fresh-baked tortilla chips from Whole Foods—I was so full that I wasn’t sure how I was going to eat any of the main meal, a tempura.

Oh, those pretzels!
Oh, those pretzels!

But, it’s amazing what a half-hour break can do to settle the stomach. Mike opened his presents and quite naturally took a long time examining his camera. We chatted about this and that, and there was a fair amount of camera and photography talk.

Then it was on to tempura, a fancy term for food dipped in a simple batter and, in this case, fried in a wok right at the table. There are usually dipping sauces, and Shannon provided two sweet sauces and one hot and spicy. We had mushrooms, zucchini, carrots, potatoes, broccoli, and chicken. The food, piping hot and crisp and bite-sized, is delicious, but more than that, the meal becomes a ritual as diners watch the tempura chef dip the vegetables in batter, fry the food, and then pass small portions on a plate for everyone to enjoy. Not every meal, of course, can be a ritual, but how nice it is to have one like this for special occasions.

The veggies, waiting to be fried
The veggies, waiting to be fried

Clif started out as the tempura chef, but because of his broken wrist, he was not as adept with the chopsticks as he usually is. Since I am pathetic with chopsticks, and Shannon is a wiz, she took over from him. (Unfortunately, I only thought to take a picture of Clif at the batter bowl.)

Clif at the batter bowl
Clif at the batter bowl
Lovely, lovely tempura
Lovely, lovely tempura

Again, I am embarrassed to admit how much tempura I ate. A real cheat day for me, and the ice cream cake we had for dessert was the perfect ending to an oh-so-good meal.

Happy 30th birthday, Mike. I can’t wait to see your pictures.

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Lunch with Ali at Pad Thai Too in Waterville

Yesterday, I went to Pad Thai Too in Waterville to have lunch with Ali, who is engaging, friendly, and down-to-earth. She’s a master gardener who manages to grow astonishing amounts of vegetables on an in-town lot. (Those who are looking to reduce the cost of their grocery bill should take note—-growing your own food really makes a difference.) She also has hens. Our conversation ranged from family to gardening to cooking to politics. She enquired after the girls and Liam. I asked about her home renovations, and we chatted with the ease of old friends. But here’s the thing—we aren’t old friends. Yesterday was the first time we had ever met. But in a sense, we are old friends, having met several years ago through our blogs—Henbogle and A Good Eater. We’ve been wanting to get together for lunch for some time, and finally, we did.

Blogs are curious things. There is a wide variety of blogs, which include online columns for newspapers and magazines as well as the musings of everyday people about their lives and the things that interest them. My blog and Ali’s blog fall into the latter category, and we follow each other’s blogs because of our similar interests. In an earlier time, letters might have been the vehicle for this kind of friendship, but today we have the computer, which allows communities—around the state, around the country, around the world—to form based around those similar interests.

“I’d really like to organize a get together for Maine bloggers,” Ali said.

“That would be so much fun,” I replied.

And we also agreed that we’d like to get together for lunch again, when schedules allow.

Now, what about the food at Pad Thai Too? It was very tasty indeed. I had a combination platter of spring rolls, vegetarian fried rice, satay, and dumplings. I ate every bit of it.

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Ali had Khao Soi, a soup with chicken (tofu is also an option), crispy noodles, soft noodles, mustard greens, red and yellow curry, and coconut milk. It looked so good that I vowed to order it the next time I went to Pad Thai Too.

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All in all, a very good day with great food and even better company.

 

 

 

 

 

Our Valentine’s Day Meal

IMG_3055I am happy to report that the new recipe I used for barbecue beef in a crock pot was a smashing success. As I had hoped, the house was fragrant with the smell of the cooking beef when Clif came home from work, and those smells certainly whetted the appetite. We went all out with candles, music, and wine and a long leisurely meal where we talked about various musicians—the Beatles, the Rolling Stones, and Neil Young, to name a few—as well as politics, and, yes, even Shakespeare, one of my favorite topics.

The barbecue beef was everything it ought to have been—tender, spicy, smokey with a rich tomato base. We also had rice, corn, homemade bread, and homemade applesauce.

“Tell me,” I asked Clif as we ate. “How does this beef compare with scalloped scallops?” (This recipe from an old Fannie Farmer cookbook is one of his favorite meals, and we usually have it for our anniversary.)

“I’d have to put them at the same level,” Clif replied. “In fact, this sauce is so good that we could make it this summer for when we barbecue on the grill.”

Indeed, we could. Then there was silence as we finished our meal. Hoping for handouts, the cats and the dog circled the table. As we are soft touches when it comes to animals, they were not disappointed. The candlelight made everything look cozy. We sipped our wine, we ate our meal, and afterwards we were so full that we didn’t even have room for the Pepperidge Farm chocolate turnovers. No matter. They are in the freezer, and we can have them another time.

All in all, a very nice Valentine’s Day.

A Valentine’s Day Present for Clif

IMG_3048My husband, Clif, and I used to go out to eat on Valentine’s Day, but after a few times, we both decided it was no fun. The restaurants were packed, the service wasn’t that good, and overall, our experience was mediocre at best and pricy to boot. So nowadays my Valentine’s present to Clif is a meal of his choice, from beginning to end. As long as there is a box of chocolates in the mix—preferably from See’s—neither of us regrets this decision.

This year, Clif made things quite easy—barbecue beef, baked potatoes, corn, and Pepperidge Farm chocolate turnovers for dessert. (Readers, these turnovers are fantastic! You can find them in the frozen-food section of the grocery store.) I don’t cook beef very often, so I had to search the Internet for a recipe, and I found this one on Food.com. 

I liked the combination of spices and flavors of the Food.com recipe, and as soon as I post this piece, I’ll be getting the beef ready for the crockpot. By midafternoon, the house will be fragrant with the smell of cooking beef. I’ll also be making homemade bread, and this, too, will add to the aromas that will greet Clif when he comes home. Since I plan on taking the dog for a walk in the woods today, I’ll also get to smell these good things when I come in from the walk.

I’m a great believer in celebrating events big and small. Celebrations perk up our lives. They add a much-needed zip to all the work of everyday life, no matter how satisfying that work might be. However, especially on Valentine’s Day, those who are single can feel a little left out, so I would like to share a quotation from Ida LeClair, whom I have recently written about: “If you don’t have a sweetie right now, be your own sweetie, and do something nice for yourself today. You’re worth it!”

Right on, Ida!

 

 

 

Sweets from My Sweetie

Today has been a very tired day for me. All my exertions with the storm as well as over the past two months finally caught up with me. But then, what did I spy on the doorstep? A package for me! A package containing something I’m just crazy about—See’s Chocolates. I’m a lucky wife, that’s for sure.

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 And let’s just say that eating a few of those wonderful chocolates really perked me up.

Getting Ready for Valentine’s Day or Why I Love the East Winthrop Post Office

IMG_3045Valentine’s Day—that sweetest day of the year—is coming. I made a double batch of sugar cookies, cut out in the shape of hearts, of course, with lemon icing on top. I used a recipe from my old Betty Crocker Cookbook, and it’s one that I’ve used for many years. Betty Crocker certainly isn’t trendy, and some of the recipes, especially for the main meals, use ingredients such as cream of mushroom soup, items that good cooks usually stay away from. But there are a surprising number of Betty’s recipes that use real ingredients and are simple but good. I would not dream of getting rid of Betty, and her book is my go-to book for corn bread, French donuts, apple pie, gingerbread, basic muffins, and various cookies.

Naturally, the heart cookies were shared with some of my favorite people, including Dave, the postmaster at the East Winthrop Post Office, where I mailed a couple of boxes of cookies. (We have a post office in Winthrop, which is very good, but as I took Clif to work yesterday, the East Winthrop Post Office was more convenient.) I’ve known Dave for quite a while. When my husband and I were publishing our magazine, Wolf Moon Journal, he was invaluable. Because the East Winthrop Post Office isn’t fully automated, I could just bring in the journals, tell him how many there were to be mailed, pay him, and then let him process the journals at his own pace, which was usually the very same day. Since I always brought in more than a hundred journals, this was no small thing. But Dave loved seeing me come in with all those journals.

“It’s just great for us,” he would say. “It really boosts my circulation.”

Dave was cheerful, he never got flustered to have so many pieces of mail to process, he never seemed hurried, and once he even called to tell me that I might want to check my records because I had sent two journals to the same name at two slightly different addresses. He was right. I had made an error in my data base, and I corrected it. Because we published the journal for seven years, Dave and I became friendly acquaintances, and every time Dave helped me with the journals, I reflected on what a pleasure it was to deal with someone who was good at his job, who did things the right way and was pleasant as well. It actually felt like a gift, something that couldn’t be taken for granted.

But back to the mailing the cookies…Yesterday, I stopped in to ask Dave about the best way to mail those cookies. I only had 1 box and I needed another.

“What about a flat-rate box?” I asked.

“Oh, that would be too expensive,” he said. “I think I have something out back that you could use.”

And sure enough, he found a previously used but clean box in the back room. It was just the right size, and it didn’t cost me a penny.

“Well,” I said, “I guess I better bring in some cookies for you when I come back to mail my packages.”

“If you want to,” he said modestly.

Of course I did. Later that afternoon, I brought him some cookies as well as the packages to be mailed, and he said, “I had a feeling I’d be getting some cookies.”

I replied, “That’s what you get for being so nice.” Cookies as well as packages to be mailed.

A lesson that should be taken to heart by everyone, because let’s face it, as the old saying goes, you do catch more flies with honey than you do with vinegar.

As Dave is this way with all his customers, it’s my guess that he gets a lot of cookies.

 

 

A Lobster BLT at the Red Barn

IMG_3034Well, we finally made it to the Red Barn on Sunday. The $25 gift card that I won was absolutely screaming to be used, and use it we did, splurging on the Barn’s famous lobster BLT as well as an order of mixed seafood, homemade chips, and a whoopie pie to share. (Clif and I do have our limits, broad though they might be.) Adding 2 small drinks, the grand total came to $31, which seemed like a very decent price for all that luscious seafood.

The lobster BLT came on homemade whole wheat bread, which certainly jazzed up the whole sandwich. So much so, in fact, that I would be tempted to order a plain BLT on another visit. But what did I think about the lobster BLT? I liked it, but I didn’t love it, which was a little surprising when you consider how keen I am on lobster rolls and BLTs. Somehow, though, the strong, smokey taste of the bacon overpowered the sweet, subtle lobster. Now, if I had lobster on a regular basis, I think I might have enjoyed the combination a little more. But, for me, lobster is a treat, something that I only have very occasionally, and when I do have it, I really want to taste that lobster. I don’t want tomato sauce with it. I don’t want spices. I just want lobster. In the future, I will stick with a plain old lobster roll.

But it was fun to try the lobster BLT. And the chips and the mixed seafood—shrimp, scallops, fried clams, and fix—were their usual delectable selves.  For dessert, the whoopie pie was moist and chocolatey—everything a whoopie pie should be.

All in all, what a meal! We left feeling full, content, and happy, and ready to return on another cheat day.

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Storm Nemo: The Big Clean-Up

IMG_3004Well, I got two of my wishes for Storm Nemo: We didn’t lose our power, and I didn’t catch Clif’s cold. (At least not yet.) My third wish wasn’t granted—I had hoped for 12 inches of snow or less, and we got about 20 inches—but you can’t have everything, and the wishes I did get were really the two most important ones.

But what a lot of work this storm was! First there was the getting ready and then came the big clean-up. Clif couldn’t help because of his broken wrist, so it was me against the elements yesterday, with Liam to bark his encouragement. I spent about three and a half hours moving snow, and thank goodness for the electric snow thrower Dee got us for Christmas. I still had to do a bit of shovelling, but mostly I used Little Green, as I’ve come to call the snow thrower.

After three and a half hours of moving snow, I was just plain pooped. How nice it was to come in for tomato soup and grilled cheese sandwiches that Clif had fixed and then settle in my cozy bed for a little nap. But my real reward for all that hard work was Clif’s homemade pancakes for supper. I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again. Clif’s homemade pancakes are the best, so good that I’m seldom tempted to order pancakes when I go out for brunch. When I do, I’m always disappointed.

Although I got most of the clean-up done yesterday, I still have more to do today—probably an hour and a half or so. But the sun is shining, we have our power, I don’t have a cold, and the worst is behind me. The Red Barn is also calling—I have that $25 gift certificate. All in all, a good ending to the big storm.

In between cleaning the driveway and the yard, I did find time to take the following pictures:

Our backyard
Our backyard
Not a day for a barbecue
Not a day for a barbecue
Doggie Zhivago
Doggie Zhivago
The front steps
The front steps
Toad in the snow
Toad in the snow
Little Green
Little Green
Pancakes at the end of the day
Pancakes at the end of the day

 

 

 

 

Getting Ready for Storm Nemo

IMG_2976Today the sky was a deep blue, and although the weather was brisk, it was pleasant being outside. But another one of those storms seems to be making its way toward the Northeast, and this one even has a name—Nemo. Therefore, I duly went to the supermarket—before the rush—to pick up a few things. I didn’t have to buy much. I make it a point to stockpile a fair amount of food, which means I usually have basic supplies on hand. (There is a difference between stockpiling and hoarding, and perhaps in another post I’ll write about the difference between the two.)

I hauled quite a bit of wood for the furnace, and this included sledgehammering some of the bottom layer of frozen wood stuck in the ground. While I did get a wheelbarrow full of wood from my sledgehammering, I must admit that I’m not very good at it. Many of my attempts amounted to nothing more than a few flying splinters of wood, with the log remaining frozen firmly in place. Lastly, using a little handsaw, I sawed some fallen branches I had hauled in from the woods, and got a nice bucket of small logs for my efforts. I am amazing myself with all the things I am learning to do now that my husband, Clif, with his broken wrist, can’t do heavy chores anymore. By the time summer comes, I’ll have arms and legs of steel.

The electric snow-thrower Dee bought us for Christmas is ready, and we even have a 100-foot cord that will allow me to reach the end of the driveway. Downstairs, there are two big buckets of water for the toilet should the power go out, and tonight I’ll be filling my stock pans with water to set on the stove. (If the power does go out, then I’ll be doing a lot of scooping and shovelling.)

But the most important thing I did was to make homemade granola cookies. I figured I needed something to keep my strength up as I shovelled, snow-blowed, and hauled more wood in. Yesterday, I made a big batch of nutty, crunchy granola, using a Mark Bittman recipe, and what should pop into my mind but granola cookies, which I have never made. I had a basic idea of how it should be done—essentially chocolate chip cookies with granola replacing a fair amount of the flour. When I went online to look for a recipe, I discovered that my hunch was right, and I decided to go with this recipe from allrecipes.com. You might call these cookies glorified oatmeal cookies, but the emphasis should be on “glorified.” My nutty, crunchy, coconutty granola gives these cookies a special twist, and I think they just might be my new favorite cookie, beating out plain chocolate chip cookies and gingersnaps. (This last statement is tantamount to heresy in my house, but I like these granola cookies so much that I’m not recanting.)

So come on, Storm Nemo, we’re ready for you. If the gods are smiling on us, we won’t lose our power, I won’t catch Clif’s cold—so far, so good—and we won’t get more than a foot of snow.

One thing is certain, we won’t be going to the Red Barn tomorrow night for supper. That will have to wait until the storm has passed. In the meantime, I can console myself with a granola cookie or two. I’ll have earned them.

 

Hot Chickity Chicken—Winning a $25 Gift Certificate to the Red Barn in Augusta

IMG_2962The title of this post says it all! On Monday, I won a $25 gift certificate to one of my favorite places to eat—The Red Barn in Augusta, Maine. (I put my Good Eater business card in a bowl for their monthly drawing.) I’ve written about the Red Barn before, about how their seafood and chicken are so good and so fresh and about how the employees are actually paid a living wage. The employees, in turn, are friendly, cheerful, and efficient, which is not always the case with those who work in service-sector jobs. Being paid a decent wage really affects morale, and employees that feel valued give better service. It’s as simple as that. In addition, Laura Benedict, the owner, frequently makes the Red Barn available for fundraisers for area charities and organizations.

Although you can get a lobster roll or grilled fish or chicken sandwiches at the Red Barn, they specialize in fried chicken and seafood, and it is my restaurant of choice for my weekly treat day, where I let myself eat as much as I want without worry of calories. Sometimes I get fried chicken, other times it might be shrimp, but I always order a side of their crisp homemade chips. And to guild the lily, Clif and I often split a homemade whoopie pie for dessert.

Then there are the prices—$10.95 for a lobster roll, $8.75 for a pint of chicken, and $12.25 for a pint of shrimp. I have become so spoiled by the Red Barn’s prices and the quality of their food that I can hardly bring myself to order seafood anywhere else.

Yesterday, I went to the Barn to pick up my gift certificate. The smell of fried seafood, chicken, and chips was so enticing that I could barely restrain myself from ordering right then and there. But I did. Clif has a cold and quite rightly didn’t want to eat out last night. Also, my cheat day is on the weekend, either Saturday or Sunday, and while I could have ordered one of their grilled sandwiches, I had something a little richer in mind. So using all my self restraint, I collected my gift certificate, and as I tucked it into my pocketbook, I glumly reflected on our supper that night—spicy lentils over rice. Now, lentils are very good in their own way, but they certainly can’t compete with the Red Barn’s food. I hurried out the door and didn’t look back.

“Friday,” I said to a sniffling Clif as I picked him up from work—his broken wrist still prevents him from driving. “If the weather and our health allow, we’ll go out to eat on Friday, which, after all, is the start of the weekend.”

Nodding, Clif blew his nose and agreed that by Friday, he should be ready for a meal at the Red Barn.

So until then, I will be daydreaming, at odd moments, about our Friday meal at the Red Barn. I’ll be getting something rather over-the-top, something I’ve never ordered before—a lobster BLT. (Susan Poulin, are you reading this? I know you’re as wild about bacon as I am.) How will lobster go with bacon? I have no idea. Stay tuned, and I’ll let you know.