All posts by Laurie Graves

I write about nature, food, the environment, home, family, community, and people.

Apple Crisp and Stories

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On Sunday, our friends Cheryl and Denny and Judy and Paul came over for homemade apple crisp and talk. As I’ve noted in a previous post, I really love hosting afternoon get-togethers with friends. We have a good-size dining room with an old Victorian table—the original chairs, long gone, were filled with straw—that can easily be expanded to accommodate eight to ten people. However, for me, six is the perfect number for good conversation.

Apple crisp must surely be one of the best desserts to serve at a gathering. It can be made ahead of time, tucked in the refrigerator, and baked forty-five minutes or so before guests arrive. Old apples, a little wrinkled, taste perfectly good, and my blast-furnace oven does a fine bubbling job of baking the crisp. The recipe I use comes from a Craig Claiborne New York Times Cookbook, and I just follow his instructions. If I had made enough  modifications to call the recipe mine, then I would happily share it. But I haven’t.

Then there is the smell of apples, cinnamon, and cloves as they blend and bake. It wafts from the kitchen and drifts to the dining room, and I expect this smell stimulates the appetite. (Let’s just say that it’s a good thing I made plenty for seconds.) So you have warm spiced apples and a crunchy, buttery topping. Perfect, right? Almost. It needs a scoop of vanilla ice cream to slowly melt into the warm mixture. Whipped cream is all right, but to my way of thinking, ice cream is the jewel in the crown, so to speak.

As we sat around the dining room table, we talked about many things, but one topic in particular stuck with me because I’ve been thinking about it lately—the importance of stories and how we all have them.

Judy told of how one day, when her mother was young—this would have been in the 1930s—she came home to find her mother (Judy’s grandmother) sobbing as she did the ironing.

“What’s wrong, what’s wrong?” Judy’s mother asked.

As Judy’s grandmother ironed, she listened to the radio, to an afternoon soap opera, and something sad had happened to one of the characters. Hence the tears.

After hearing this story, I replied, “I think the story gene runs strong in humans. Whatever the medium, we will always have stories. I’m sure of it.”

Everyone nodded, and Cheryl recounted how one Christmas her book group listened to a recording of A Child’s Christmas in Wales read by the great man himself, Dylan Thomas. All the lights were turned off except for the ones on the Christmas tree, and by the sparkling lights they listened to this fine writer read his own words.

“Sounds wonderful,” I said, thinking that I might like to do this next year, but with just Clif and me. (My book group meets at the library, and somehow, it just wouldn’t be the same to do it there.)

“It was,” Cheryl said, smiling as she remembered.

Warm apple crisp, friends around the table, shared stories. Another finest kind of way to spend a winter’s afternoon.

 

Lunch and Art: A Trip to Riverside Farm Restaurant and Wine Market and the Colby College Museum of Art

On Friday, Clif and I went to Oakland and Waterville for lunch and art. (Oh, the joys of being retired. We can go any day we choose.) For Christmas we had received a gift certificate to Riverside Farm Restaurant and Wine Market, which serves fresh, tasty meals. The day was gray, but the following photo gives some idea of the beauty of the place.

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And the welcoming but snowy entrance. (It is January in Maine, after all.)

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Inside, it was warm and cozy.  Clif ordered a burger, and I ordered a chicken pesto sandwich. Both were delicious. When we were done, not a bit of food remained on our plates.

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Clif’s burger

 

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My chicken sandwich

 

Not far from where we sat, two elderly women and a much younger woman were discussing hummus. (A granddaughter out with her grandmother and a friend? We didn’t ask, of course.)

One of the elderly women observed, “I wouldn’t have eaten hummus when I was younger.”

The younger woman replied. “I used to be afraid of it, but now I love it.”

A good example of how taste changes. Once upon a time, I wouldn’t eat pie. It just looked too messy to me. Now, I love pie with a passion that is almost beyond comprehension. And there are so many other foods I have not only learned to like but have come to enjoy—turnip, carrots, cilantro. I’m still working on peas.

After lunch, it was on to the Colby College Museum of Art.  A quick aside and a note of gratitude: Central Maine, where Clif and I live, is small and rural. Our town’s population is 6,000, and many surrounding towns have even fewer people. However, we are within easy drive of three fine private colleges—Colby, Bates, and Bowdoin—and they all offer many cultural events. Nearby, we also have Railroad Square Cinema, which shows independent films and the Theater at Monmouth, which features classic plays every summer, two of which are usually Shakespeare’s. Clif and I often reflect on how lucky we are to live in a rural community yet still have many cultural events to choose from.

But back to art: The Colby College Museum of Art is the largest art museum in Maine, and admission is free. The museum’s focus is “on American art, and commitment to collecting and exhibiting contemporary art.”  They have a large permanent collection, and they also feature various exhibitions with art from away, as we Mainers might put it.

William Zorach’s Mother and Child greets museum visitors, and as I find snow and sculpture to be an irresistible combination, I had to take a picture.

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Unfortunately, on Friday, the museum was in the process of taking down its Whistler exhibit and installing a new one:”Turning Back, an exhibition of 164 photographs by acclaimed photographer Robert Adams…”  This exhibit will be on display at the art museum beginning February 2.  (We did get a sneak preview as we were allowed to go through the galleries where this exhibit was being hung.)

Never mind. We still enjoyed looking at work from the permanent collection. And February 2 isn’t that far away. We will be back to see the photography exhibit, and we even have enough left on our gift certificate for another lunch at Riverside Farm Market.

A finest kind of thing to do on a winter’s day.

 

Liam Is Eleven

Normally, I don’t post two pieces in the same day, but today is Liam’s birthday, and I thought I would make an exception. As the title suggests, Liam is eleven years old. He is no longer a young dog, but he is still spry, still energetic, still ready to bark at a moment’s notice.  Liam is sweet but aloof, as many herding dogs are, and we love him exactly the way he is.

Looking through the gate
Looking through the gate

So happy birthday, Liam. Maybe, just maybe, there will be an extra treat tonight, a little vanilla ice cream to celebrate your big day.

Liam, ready to bark
Ready to bark

Lunch at Diane’s

Yesterday, we went to our friend Diane’s house for lunch. Clif had agreed to help set up Netflix on her computer and television. In return, she made lunch for us—spicy vegetable soup, cheese and tomato melts, salad, and chocolate gelato for dessert. I think we got the better end of the deal.

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While we were eating, Diane told us the story of her German grandmother, who came to the U.S. when she was eleven, all by herself on a boat across the Atlantic. She landed at Ellis Island and made her way through the immigration process, with no adult to help. Once this task was finished, it was on to Chicago, again by herself, to stay with relatives. She was widowed twice, supported herself and her children by being a seamstress, and lived into her nineties. A  hardy woman with a very, very strong personality.

Also, it’s interesting to think of this story in terms of immigration. Diane’s grandmother left Germany because she (or her family) felt there were better opportunities for her in the United States. (I can’t help but wonder how much a child of eleven would really want to leave home. She was the eldest in a big family.) Nowadays, Germany is seen as the land of opportunity for so many.  It’s funny how things change.

After lunch, Clif helped Diane install Netflix streaming, while I took pictures. First, of Casey, Diane’s cat.

Enough with pictures, already!
Enough with the pictures, already!

 

And then outside for some winter pictures.

Icicles on roses
Icicles on roses

 

Wind chimes against blue
Wind chimes against blue

 

Pampa grass against the snow
Pampa grass against the snow

 

After Netflix was installed and pictures were taken, there was more tea. And more talk, of course. We stayed until dusk, when the sky was dark but not black, and a waxing crescent moon shone in the night sky.

Beautiful, Mercurial January: A Sapphire Sky, Liam through the Ice, and a Snowstorm

Gideon, little guardian of the yard, with a snow cap
Gideon, little guardian of the yard, with a snow cap

This year, January has been such a variable month. On Monday, when I went to a library meeting, I was dazzled by the night sky. It was just past dusk, shading into night with a sapphire blue horizon.  Into that beautiful blue came the rising moon, a glimmering sliver, a slice of brilliance.

On Tuesday, knowing that a snowstorm was coming, Clif and I (and Liam!) took to the woods, where the ground was nearly bare. There were patches of ice on the trail, which meant we still had to walk carefully. To borrow from Paul Simon, the sky was a hazy shade of winter. When we got to the brook, we found that ice had been thrown this way and that, just perfect for taking photographs, some of which were featured in this week’s Wordless Wednesday.  While I was taking pictures by the brook, I heard a mighty crash.

“What’s that?” I asked, whirling around.

“Liam fell through the ice, but he’s all right,” Clif answered.

Already on the shore, Liam was shaking his back legs. This confirmed one of my worries about Liam and winter ice—his basic unawareness of thin ice. When we have walked by the Narrows, where the water is deep, I have watched him carefully, only letting him on the ice when it was completely frozen. With the brook, there are no worries. The water is shallow, and the current is gentle. Still, this was a reminder that my concern is genuine.

We came home and had fresh homemade bread and leftover red bean soup. While we ate, it snowed outside, and before I went to bed, I turned on the porch light. “A nice little snowstorm,” I thought, seeing several inches on the porch.

On Wednesday, we woke up to find that about six inches of perfect, light, fluffy snow had fallen. This, of course, meant clean-up, with Clif on Little Green, me with the shovel, and Liam to leap, bark, and supervise.

Clif with Little Green
Clif with Little Green

 

Liam, Dog of the North, in the backyard
Liam, Dog of the North, in the backyard

Somehow, January is never long for me. I don’t mind the cold, and I don’t mind the snow, as long as it’s not heavy, and we don’t get more than a foot with any one storm. I suppose it’s because I was born in central Maine, and I have lived here for most of my fifty-eight years. To me, snow and cold are a normal part of life.

Then there is the beautiful winter light, which my small camera cannot always capture. Brilliant during the day, deep and mysterious at nightfall, this light makes January a month to look forward to.

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Going to the Movies on a Sunday Morning to See Bounce: How the Ball Taught the World to Play

First, a little back story: For the past twelve years or so, Clif and I have been part of a committee that plans a winter film series at Railroad Square Cinema, a wonderful independent cinema about twenty-five miles from where we live. The film series—Cinema Explorations—comprises six films, begins the weekend after New Year’s, and runs every other Saturday and Sunday until March.

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This past weekend was the weekend after New Year’s, and Cinema Explorations started with a thoughtful yet snappy documentary called Bounce: How the Ball Taught the World to Play. As a bonus, David McLain, the cinematographer, lives in Maine, and he was able to come to the Sunday showing for a Q & A after the movie.

Bounce begins by illustrating how play is integral to many species, including dogs, cats, otters, chimps, tigers, and, of course, humans. While young ones are especially apt to play, even adults play, too, from time to time. This play might seem to be without purpose and a huge waste of energy, but Bounce maintains that play, even if it’s rough and tumble, enhances creativity and teaches necessary social skills.

Enter the ball. Round things are found in nature, often in the form of fruit but also with rocks. Our primate ancestors ate fruit, used rocks as tools, and most probably used them for play. The earliest depiction of a game using a created ball comes from the Egyptians, but the ball was developed independently around the world, and those clever Mesoamericans even figured out how to make them bounce.

Once a ball could bounce, it became ever so much more exciting and unpredictable. (So exciting that the Spaniards initially banned the Mesoamericans from playing with their demon-possessed bouncing balls.) The bouncing ball gave us soccer, rugby, and many other games that involve a ball.

Bounce takes us around the world to India, Africa, and the Orkney Islands, the latter of which has developed a game called Ba’, which is only played on Christmas and New Year’s Day and almost defies explanation. It involves a crushing mob and a ball and two sides—the uppies and the doonies, the farmers and the fishermen. This sequence in Bounce is jaw-dropping, illustrating how Ba’ is certainly not for the claustrophobic.

After the movie, David McLain, the cinematographer, told us a little about how the film was made and also answered questions. He said that the hardest part of the film was to shoot free-play sequences, that nowadays American children have very little opportunity for playing without adult supervision. For this he had to go to Africa and India. McLain also noted that one of the ironies of Bounce was that making it was so much work. “But we all need to play,” he concluded. “The play state is important.”

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David McLain, the talented cinematographer of “Bounce,” in the lobby at Railroad Square

Despite the hard work that went into making this movie, Bounce is playful, fun, and informative.  In addition, the music is terrific, and the cinematography is outstanding.  After seeing this movie, I will never look at balls and play the same way again. If Bounce comes to a cinema or festival near you, then go see it.

 

Success with Red Bean Soup

Yesterday, before doing errands, Clif and I chopped vegetables and chicken sausage and put them—along with chicken broth, water, tomato paste, and spices—in the slow-cooker. We added plenty of red beans. Finally, my not-so-secret ingredient, a little soy sauce.

Off we went to do errands, and when we came home—voilà!—the house was filled with the spicy smell of simmering soup.

Clif’s Yankee pronouncement? “Pretty darned good.”

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Making Red Bean Soup on a Snowy Day

This morning, when I looked out my window, I saw falling snow and a gray day.

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I couldn’t catch the falling snow, only the gray

 

A perfect day to make red bean soup, in honor not only of Esther and her mother but also in honor of soup month, which January apparently is. (In Maine, January is an appropriately frosty time to celebrate soup.)

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I found some beans from Maine, and I soaked them last night.This morning I simmered them, and soon into the slow-cooker the red beans will go along with green beans, summer squash, and green peppers. (Those last three had been frozen then thawed.) I will also add some chicken sausage.

I’ll make biscuits, of course. After Esther’s story of walking home in the cold and the dark to red bean soup and biscuits, how could I leave out the biscuits?

I expect my soup will different from the one that Esther’s mother used to make, but no matter. It will be red bean soup. Served with biscuits.