All posts by Laurie Graves

I write about nature, food, the environment, home, family, community, and people.

Will I Lose My Health Insurance?

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For some people, the Affordable Care Act is this:  The. Worst. Thing. Ever.  It represents all that’s wrong with this country and is a prime example of government overreach.  For other people, who saw their rates rise because of the Affordable Care Act, it has indeed been a burden. But for many, many people it has been a blessing, allowing them to have affordable health care and to get the treatment they need to stay healthy.

I fall into the third category. My husband retired a year ago, and the only reason he did so was because of the Affordable Care Act. Knowing we could get good insurance at a decent price, we both decided that it would be all right for Clif to retire. And so he did.

For the past year, the Affordable Care Act did exactly what it was supposed to do. It allowed us to purchase insurance at a reasonable rate. It covered my mammogram—very important as I have had breast cancer—our yearly exams, and our medication. We felt secure in the knowledge that if either of us had a stroke or a heart attack, then we could get the care we needed, and we wouldn’t have to worry about going into bankruptcy or losing our house.

This year, Clif turned sixty-five and went on Medicare, which turned out to be a little more expensive than what were paying through the Affordable Care Act. But it was still within what our modest budget could afford.

Oh, what a difference a day can make! On Tuesday, Donald J. Trump was elected president, and during the long campaign, he repeatedly stated that repealing the Affordable Care Act was his number one priority. Whenever he proclaimed this, the crowds cheered in approval.

If Trump is to be taken at his word, then I just might lose my current health insurance.  For an extra five or six hundred dollars a month, I could probably purchase catastrophic health insurance that would cover nothing but hospital costs should I have the aforementioned stroke or heart attack. However, simply put, we cannot afford the extra five or six hundred a month, no matter how frugal we are. Then there would be the extra cost of mammograms, physicals, etc.

Am I worried? You bet I am. Will President Trump  effectively end affordable health insurance for millions of people? Time will tell.

Sigh.

The Day Before the Election

I normally don’t write about politics—the focus of this blog is on nature, community, family, books, and food—but on this day before the election, I can hardly think of anything else. To say that I am anxious about the outcome is a big, big understatement.

In walking around my yard this morning, I took some pictures to cheer myself up.

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And finally I took one of my garden Buddha, a serene reminder to extend compassion to everyone.

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May we be filled with loving kindness,
May we be well.
May we be peaceful and at ease,
May we be happy.

Looking Up

On our daily walks, Liam, in his blindness, is the perfect companion for me, with my creaky knees.  We both go at about the same slow pace, and we are never impatient with each other. Liam frequently stops to sniff, and I wait for him. I frequently stop to take pictures, and he waits for me.

On our walk the other day, my eyes were drawn upwards. (Some days, I like to look down.) I saw red berries against a cerulean sky,

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little brown cones,

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and a tangle of yellow and brown leaves.

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As always, there is something to notice and admire on our little stretch of country road.

Puppy Magic

Two days ago, I went to visit Magic, the new puppy in the neighborhood. Although he has indeed grown in a week, he is still at that adorable, plump puppy stage. So cute, so sweet!

The day was sunny and warm, which meant we could go outside and watch him play in the backyard. It wasn’t easy to get a picture of romping Magic, but I snapped away and even got a few good ones.

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I have always loved babies of all sorts, but somehow as I get older, I find it especially heartening to see new life.  On the cycle goes—spring, summer, fall, winter, and back to spring. We are all a part of it, whatever stage we are in.

 

Happy Halloween!

Gideon, the guardian of the little house in the big woods, wishes everyone a happy Halloween, which used to be one of my favorite holidays.

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For someone with not a sweet tooth but sweet teeth, as my friend Mike Sienko would put it, what’s not to like about going to door to and having adults give you candy?

Pure bliss!

Maya and the Book of Everything Is Here!

Toot, toot, and la-dee-da! Bells and whistles and horns!

Maya and the Book of Everything is here at the little house in the big woods. I held the book in my own hands, and what a wonderful feeling. ‘Tis only the proof copy, and already we have found things we need to change, but the book is closer and closer to becoming a reality.

November 28 is the targeted publishing date, and it looks like we’re right on track.

Onward and upward!

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The Fabulous Susan Poulin and Ida LeClair

On Tuesday, the fabulous Susan Poulin came to the Charles M. Bailey Public Library to read from her newest book, The Sweet Life: Ida LeClair’s Guide to Love & Marriage. Full disclosure: Susan and I are friends. We’ve known each other for many years, and as Susan mentioned to Shane, the adult services librarian, the first time we met, it was as though we had each found a sister.

“Kindred spirits,” I added.

Nevertheless, even if we weren’t friends and kindred spirits, I would still be a true-blue fan of hers. Susan is an incredibly gifted story teller, humorist, and performer.  In fact, one of the best I’ve ever seen.

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The warm and wise Ida LeClair, from the fictional Maine town of Mahoosuc Mills, is Susan Poulin’s alter ego. Ida “came” to Susan twenty years ago as a character who lived with her husband Charlie  and their dog Scamp in a double-wide mobile home.  But if grim images of poverty and degradation come to your mind, wipe them away. Immediately. Ida and Charlie, married right out of high school, still love each other very much. The double wide is neat and tidy, and Ida’s joie de vivre thrums through every story and performance. (This is Susan’s second book, and she has done several one-woman shows that feature Ida.)

In addition, Ida has good friends and is rooted in her community. While she and Charlie might not be wealthy, they are rich in all the things that really matter.

To get a sense of Ida’s voice, here’s an excerpt from Chapter One, page one of The Sweet Life: “I’m…a certified Maine Life Guide…The way I see it, life guiding is…like a gentle nudge in the right direction. Someone to lend a hand when you need a little help getting out of the pucker brush and back onto the trail.”

Ida, in her inimitable way, goes on to explain, “[I] f you…are ready to get up off your duff and do what needs to be done to make it happen, welcome aboard.”

Welcome aboard, indeed! As Susan noted at Bailey Library, The Sweet Life is about sharing the good life with your partner, your friends, your family. It’s also about coping with the loss of a spouse. Each chapter deals, humorously but wisely, with various aspects of relationships, and my favorite chapter title is “There is no ‘I’ in Team, but Maybe There Should Be.”

As Susan read various sections of the book, she made us laugh, and, yes, she even made us a little tearful.  She ended with a scene of  Ida and Charlie spending time at camp with best friends. “We eat breakfast on the screened-in porch, overlooking the lake, all of us talking and laughing. Charlie smiles and squeezes my hand, looking so relaxed. And I think, at this moment, at this place here on Moose Megantic Lake, regardless of what we have been through, everything is wonderful in our world.”

What a way to end.

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