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WINTHROP FARMERS’ MARKET PROFILE: SNAFU ACRES

Marinna Smith at the Winthrop Farmers' Market
Marinna Smith at the Winthrop Farmers' Market

I love farmers’ markets—the fresh produce and the baked goods as well as the meat and the dairy, almost always hormone free. I love strolling from stand to stand, talking with the vendors, who are often the farmers who grew or produced what is being sold. I love buying a box of raspberries here, some garlic sausage there, and whoopie pies at yet another table. I have noticed that other customers seem to enjoy doing these things, too, and there is a relaxed feeling at farmers’ markets that just isn’t found in most grocery stores.

In Winthrop, we have a small but nifty farmers’ market, and my goal during this season is to write a profile of each vendor. Last week, I chatted with Marinna Smith, of Snafu Acres in Monmouth, Maine. Marinna is 15, and she tends the stand at the Winthrop Farmers’ Market while her father, R. Ivan Smith, goes to the Wayne Farmers’ Market, the next town over. Nancy Smith, Marinna’s mother, does the marketing for the farm.

Marinna is bright, articulate, and very much able to handle the business that comes her way at the Farmers’ Market. She told me how Snafu Acres is a five-generation farm that specializes in eggs, poultry, beef, and pork. (Snafu Acres also used to be a dairy farm, but her father felt it was too much work milking the cows.) All the animals are raised on grains that are hormone and antibiotic free. Marinna also told me that her father is a full-time farmer who nevertheless finds time to help his brothers with their haying.

“My father comes from a big family,” Marinna said. “He’s one of 7 kids—6 boys and 1 girl.”

“What about you?” I asked. “Are you interested in farming?”

Marinna answered that although she enjoys coming to the Farmers’ Market, she probably wouldn’t be involved with the physical labor of running the farm. She likes to write, and she finds the market a good place to get material. “I see people walking by, and I get a good idea of their traits.”

“What do you plan to study in college?” I asked, even though at 15, Marinna still has a few years left in high school.

Her answer surprised me. “Biomedical Engineering.”

Truly, a well-rounded young woman.

“Is there anything else you’d like to add about the farm?” I asked.

“The farm teaches you not to procrastinate,” she replied. “When the eggs need to be washed, they need to be washed.”

Anything else?

She grinned. “The Snafu in our farm’s name is the acronym of what you’d expect.”

Of course it is.

Thanking Marinna for taking the time to talk to me, I bought a pound of breakfast sausage, and that evening my husband, Clif, and I had a Maine feast. We fried the sausage, and we boiled some new potatoes and green beans from Farmer Kev. Even the butter—Kate’s Butter—came from Maine. We took this simple but oh-so-good meal out to the patio, and we stayed there until it got dark, listening to the night noises and enjoying the damp feeling of dew as it settled around us. Clif light the citronella torches, which did a fine job of keeping the mosquitoes at bay. In the flickering light, the animals—the dog, the orange cat, and the black and white cat—settled around us as Clif and I toasted Maine and its summer bounty.

 

 

WEDNESDAY AFTERNOON TEA WITH SYBIL

Tea with Sybil
Tea with Sybil

Yesterday, my friend Sybil came over for tea and homemade anise biscotti. The rain just barely held off long enough for us to have our tea—iced not hot—on the patio, where we talked about all kinds of things. Sybil’s upcoming move to Brunswick was, of course, a major topic. For a while now, Sybil has wanted to move to a place where she can walk to many things and leave her car in the driveway. With its restaurants, bookstore, grocery store, farmers’ market, and cinema, Brunswick is the perfect town for this. Somehow, it has survived strip-mall fever, even though malls hover on the edge of town. While some stores have closed, Brunswick still manages to have a thriving downtown.

Right now, Sybil only lives 20 minutes away from me, and I will certainly miss having her around the corner. Over the past year, she has become a real friend. We both love books, movies, and theater, and when I was in cancer treatment, she fetched me once a week so that there wouldn’t be so much driving back and forth to Augusta. (My husband and I only have one car.) Still, Brunswick is not that far away, and along with shops and restaurants, there is also Bowdoin College and its art museum to visit. Then there is Gelato Fiasco, and if there is better gelato in Maine, then I haven’t tasted it. Finally, our friend Diane also lives in Brunswick, so we have many reasons to go there.

The talk turned to food, as it often does with me. Sybil’s daughter soon will be coming to visit her, and Sybil was wondering what to prepare for dinner after a busy day of activities. I mentioned the salade niçoise I had made recently and how many of the ingredients—potatoes, egg, and sugar snap peas could be cooked ahead of time and then assembled on a large plate of greens just before dinner.

“Salmon would be a nice addition, too,” I said.

“Canned salmon?” Sybil asked.

“Yes,” I replied.

“Canned tuna used to be one of my staples,” Sybil said. “But lately I’ve been reading about how tuna is terribly overfished.”

So have I. There’s an article by Bryan Walsh in Time magazine that explores how we are fishing and eating so much that the oceans are being “picked clean,” not only of tuna but of many other fish as well. It is a very sobering piece, and one that should be read by as many people as possible. Walsh also raises the question of fish farms, which have not always had the best of reputations. Catching wild fish might be the ideal, but as Walsh notes, “With 7 billion people, however, the planet doesn’t have much space for such freedom….if we’re all going to survive and thrive in a crowded world, we’ll need to cultivate the seas just as we do the land.”

Perhaps we will, and in my opinion more of us also need to move toward a mostly vegetarian diet. Yes, fish is a healthy food, but a varied diet rich in nuts, grains, and vegetables can be just as healthy. Hard though it might be, we need to control our appetite for meat and fish.

As Sybil and I finished our tea and biscotti, a dragonfly, vivid in black and white, landed nearby and was obliging enough to stay still so that I could take its picture. Unlike the zooming hummingbirds, which dart into the bee balm and then dart out again before my little camera can catch them.

But I still have two more months to try photograph a hummingbird, and I will be waiting.

Dragonfly on pole

WINTHROP FARMERS’ MARKET PROFILE: WHOLESOME HOLMSTEAD

Wholesome Holmstead flowers

In Winthrop, we have a small but very nice Farmers’ Market that is held on Saturday from 9 a.m. to 1 p.m. in the parking lot of the Winthrop Town Office. Vegetables, eggs, dairy, meat, and baked goods are sold there, and unless my husband, Clif, and I are very busy, it’s a rare Saturday when we don’t stop at the Farmers’ Market to buy something. Often, we go on our bikes as part of our daily ten-mile ride. For us, the location is perfect as we can swing by on our way home, which is about a mile from the Farmers’ Market. Clif and I have good-size bike bags, where we can pack plenty of stuff, ranging from raspberries to garlic sausage. Then home we pedal.

One of my goals this summer is to write a short profile of all the vendors at the Winthrop Farmers’ Market—unless of course they don’t want to be featured on the blog. (I expect most of the vendors will be happy to have the publicity.)

I decided to start with Wholesome Holmstead, where I get the wonderful garlic sausage that goes so well with my homemade sweet and sour sauce. Tomorrow, I plan to make the sausage and sauce dish, and instead of adding spinach, I’ll use a sweet red pepper I have on hand and some of Farmer Kev’s sugar snap peas. But I digress.

Karen Trenholm

On Saturday at the Farmers’ Market, I spoke with Karen Trenholm, one of the owners of Wholesome Holmstead, which is on 432 Stanley Road in Winthrop. In 1947, her family bought the farm, and Karen grew up there.

“This weekend, there will be four generations helping on the farm,” Karen told me.

She then went on to explain how Wholesome Holmstead is a diversified small farm, with meat, dairy, seasonal vegetables, flowers, and herbs. “And we’re making it work,” Karen added. “We’re thankful for those supporting local farms. It can be done. There is diverse farming in the state.”

“When things we eat can be grown in Maine, we should buy locally,” I added, and naturally Karen agreed with me. We also noted that this did not mean we wanted to give up using olive oil, lemons, and various spices, only that a real effort should be made to get produce and products from Maine farmers.

The chalk board
The chalkboard

I would have to say that Karen and her family are indeed getting good local support. At about 10 a.m. last Saturday, after only an hour of being open, Karen had sold out of many things, and the chalkboard she uses to advertise her food had been wiped clean of several items. Luckily for us, she still had some garlic sausage left.

Wholesome Holmstead attends various Farmers’ Markets in central Maine, including ones at the Arboretum and the Mill Park, both in Augusta, as well as markets in Belgrade, Gardiner, and Wayne. They also have a farm stand at their Stanley Road Farm, and the stand is open daily.

As a parting bonus, Karen gave me a good tip about how to use the garlic scapes that have recently become all the rage—garlic scape pesto. In a blender or food processor, add the scapes and some olive oil. To this I would also add some walnuts and some kind of grated hard cheese. Another idea for dinner this week because, yes, there are bags of scapes in my refrigerator, and while I have added them to stir-fries, I’ve barely made a dent in them.

Along with the great food, it’s tips like this that make going to the Farmers’ Market so enjoyable.

 

 

 

 

 

FRIDAY AT PETE’S WITH RICHARD & SHANE

Pete's roast beefOn Friday, I biked into town to have lunch at Pete’s Roast Beef with Richard and Shane, two of the librarians at Bailey Public Library. Richard is the library’s director, and Shane is the adult services librarian. Since they came to Bailey Library about a year ago, Richard and Shane (and the rest of the staff, of course) have brought energy and snap to our lovely stone library. There are the many events that the library hosts, but there is something else that’s harder to pin down. For those who love books, Bailey Library has become an exciting place to go to discuss books that have been read and to get suggestions for books to be read. And all who work at this library are so warm and welcoming that I always look forward to stopping by to drop off books and to pick up the books I frequently request through the state’s interlibrary loan service.

At Pete’s, Richard, Shane, and I all got the succulent roast beef sandwiches as well as a large order of fries, and when the order came, we tucked into the food, as the saying goes, and we also tucked into some book talk. Both Richard and Shane are avid bibliophiles, and while they are young enough to be my sons, their intelligence and their keen take on the books they’ve read make them seem more like peers.

Much of our talk revolved around the book Atonement by Ian McEwan. Richard and Shane had read it six or seven years ago, and I just finished reading it a few days ago, which meant it was very fresh in my mind. We all agreed it was beautifully written with vivid characters and a plot that is taut with betrayal, sexual tension, guilt, and war. In a nice twist, Briony, who is a young teen when the book opens, is the one who does the betraying and is the one who must spend the rest of her life in atonement.

“I absolutely hated Briony,” Shane declared. “I couldn’t stand her.”

“Really?” I replied. “I felt exactly the opposite. While I thought that what she did was wrong, I had great sympathy for the emotional upheavals she was going through. I can remember going through similar upheavals myself at her age. Of course I never betrayed anyone that way,” I hastened to add.

“It’s amazing how McEwan could write so convincingly from a thirteen-year-old girl’s point of view,” Richard said.

Yes, it is, and it is the sign of an author who has a deep, empathetic grasp of human nature, which he in turn brings to his characters. This empathy, combined with his great writing style, is what makes McEwan such a fine writer.

Still, I had a criticism to add. “I thought the ending was anticlimatic. I thought there should have been a confrontation between Briony and her sister, Cecelia.” (Cecelia was deeply affected by Briony’s betrayal.)

“I agree,” said Shane.

Richard, however, had a dissenting point of view. “Maybe that’s part of McEwan’s brilliance. He didn’t do what was expected.”

Maybe it is, even though I found the end unsatisfying.

The talk then turned to Other Voices, Other Rooms by Truman Capote. Richard thinks it’s a terrific book, but as Shane and I haven’t read it, we were unable to discuss it.

“For next month at Pete’s,” Richard said.

Sounds good to me, and after lunch I went directly to Bailey Library to see if they had a copy of Other Voices, Other Rooms. They didn’t, but I have requested it through interlibrary loan.

I’m looking forward to August and Truman Capote at Pete’s.

FOURTH OF JULY: A GATHERING OF FRIENDS

The patioYesterday, on the Fourth of July, we had a “gathering of friends” to celebrate Independence Day. Although the day was hot and muggy and thunder rumbled in the distance, the weather cooperated so that we could have our meal outside on the patio, one of the places I love best. Between the hurry brought about by the threat of rain and my duties as a hostess, I did not take any pictures of the actual event. Therefore, the pictures included in this post are after the fact—the two salads, my gardens, the patio.

Our daughter Shannon and her husband, Mike, were supposed to join us, but unfortunately, Shannon came down with a dratted summer cold and stayed home to doze and to recuperate. They were missed, as was our eldest daughter, Dee, who lives in Brooklyn. As I’m fond of saying to Dee, “If only you lived in Boston…”

As is always the case at our gatherings, there was food galore, with many contributions from our friends. We started with appetizers, which included a Mexican dip, goat cheese and crackers, a melon platter, hummus, pita bread, and carrots. Then it was on to the main meal—grilled hamburgers, hot dogs, and chickpea burgers. (A note about the chickpea burgers: they are actually better fried in a bit of oil in a pan rather then grilled. The chickpea patties tend to be a little dry, and the oil in the pan enhances them.) We also had potato salad, pasta and spinach salad, and a big green salad with a wide variety of greens. A red, white, and blue Jello salad, which has become a staple on Fourth of July. For dessert, strawberry shortcake with chocolate biscuits. A real feast.Pasta and Potato salad

Although the food was certainly the centerpiece of the day, the real highlight for me, at least, was the company—Alice and Joel Johnson, Diane Friese, Jill Lectka, and Sybil Baker—and the resulting conversation. We talked about all the things that fire us up—movies, books, politics, art, and a bit of personal stuff, of course. Around the patio table we talked until the mosquitoes drove us in, and sitting around the dinning room table, we talked some more.

In the course of the conversation, there was a discussion about how each year on Public Radio, the Declaration of Independence is read. I mentioned how I love the language of this piece, and how much I enjoy hearing it read. There seemed to be general agreement about this, and there was even a suggestion that next year, we should included a reading of the Declaration of Independence at our gathering. Who knows? Maybe we will.

This morning, Diane sent me an email thanking me for inviting her to the barbecue. I replied, “Actually, I was thinking of sending everyone a thank-you note for joining Clif and me on the Fourth. What a great bunch! I’m so grateful to have you all as friends.”

A very good Fourth, indeed. Now, if only “the kids” could have been there, too.

 

 

 

 

TO HI BOMBAY FOR KATE’S BIRTHDAY

Naan
Fresh naan

Last Friday, my daughter Shannon and I celebrated our friend Kate’s birthday. Our tradition is to meet for lunch in Portland, and the birthday “girl” gets to choose the restaurant. Because Portland is such a foodie town, our options are many, and over the years we have eaten at some good restaurants. (There was also a mediocre one—The Merry Table—but this is bound to happen even in a foodie town such as Portland.) However, this time for Kate’s birthday, we hit the foodie jackpot with Hi Bombay, an Indian restaurant (of course!).

We have Shannon to thank for this because it was at her suggestion that we went to Hi Bombay. Shannon and her husband, Mike, had eaten there a week or so earlier, and they both gave it two thumbs up. As Kate would remark, “Shannon, I would not hesitate to go to any restaurant that you recommended.” To this a proud mother could only nod in agreement.

A small, unassuming restaurant with a brick front, Hi Bombay is on the edge of the Old Port. Last Friday was a cool, rainy day, and what a delight it was to open the door of the restaurant and step into a room that was filled with warm colors—red, especially—and warm spicy smells. Kate was at a booth, waiting for us.

“It’s cozy in here, isn’t it?” she said.

Yes, cozy. And welcoming, too. As an added bonus, there was a flat-screen TV with a Bollywood film playing.

Naturally, we had tea. And some naan, the traditional Indian flat bread, which was so fresh and good that it took great self control to have only one piece. (Over the winter, this good eater has put on quite a few pounds, and the time has come to lose some weight. But more about that in a future post.) Kate ordered the fish curry, which, according to the description on the menu, is “seasonal fish cooked in a sauce of onions, tomatoes, ginger, garlic & blend of spices.” Kate said it was outstanding. Shannon and I ordered the tikka chicken masala, chunks of chicken in a tomato sauce softened with a bit of cream and mixed with spices. I am not familiar enough with Indian food to identify by taste what the spices were. There are no Indian restaurants in the Augusta area, and as far as I know, there never have been. At any rate, the tikka masala was so delectable that I could have easily used some of the naan to sop up the last of the sauce. Or maybe just lick the bowl clean. I didn’t do either of those things, but I was tempted.

Tikka chicken Masala
Tikka chicken masala

Shannon asked for medium spicing, and she said her masala had quite a little zing. I am a wimp when it comes to hot spicing, and therefore requested the mild. A good decision. My tikka masala left a pleasant, spicy tingle on my lips, but not an uncomfortable one. Just the way I like it. A bowl of rice came with the masala and the curry, and the rice was beautifully cooked—light and fluffy with each grained defined.

What a meal! We all decided that we must come to this restaurant again, with the “boys” in tow.

Anytime the schedule is free, I’d be ready head to Portland for a meal at Hi Bombay. All it would take is a call or an email from family or friends.  All weekend long, I thought about that tikka masala, remembering the smooth but spicy sauce and the slight tingle it left in my mouth.

It might have been Kate’s birthday, but when food is that good (and so reasonably priced), it is a celebration for everyone involved.

 

 

FATHER’S DAY AT WOLFE’S NECK WOODS STATE PARK

There are two places in Maine that my husband, Clif, especially loves—Acadia National Park, which is a bit too far for a comfortable day trip, and Wolfe’s Neck Woods State Park in Freeport, which is within easy driving distance of Winthrop. Given that the weather is nice, Wolfe’s Neck is where Clif always wants to go for a Father’s Day outing. This year, the weather was splendid, and to Freeport we went.

Unfortunately, our son-in-law, Mike, had to work that day, but our daughter Shannon was free, and she joined us for a picnic and a hike at Wolfe’s Neck. Also, the park allows dogs, which meant we were able to bring Liam. For his special meal, Clif requested potato salad and chicken, and Shannon brought cold, baked chicken that had a spicy rub. I made the “best-ever” potato salad, and the two went together perfectly. (I would have liked some fruit or a green salad to go with the picnic, but Clif was the one who chose the meal, and chicken and potato salad were all that he wanted.)

Clif showing Shannon his father's day present---a watch---from Dee.

After we picnicked, we went for a hike on some of the trails. As the park’s brochure puts it, the trails go through “a wooded peninsula, the ‘neck’ of land between the Harraseeket River and Casco Bay.” So there is water and woods, and on the day we went, the last of the lady slippers were still in bloom. I especially love these delicate, elegant flowers, and I was sorry that they were nearly gone by. Still, it was good to see even a few of the late bloomers, and the woods must have been speckled with pink a week or so ago.

A lady's slipper

Now, we have hiked in Wolfe’s Neck for many years. Usually we start with the trail that goes along Casco Bay, where we can see the island with the Osprey nest. From there we follow a loop that takes us by the Harraseeket River and then inland back to the parking lot. The terrain is a little rough and steep, and although it is slow going for me because of my arthritic knees, the hike is one I can handle.

Into the woods

For some reason, we didn’t start at the osprey nest, the way we usually do, and later, we couldn’t figure out if we got turned around or if the trails had been changed because of winter blow downs. Whatever the case, the forest seemed to hold us in its grip, and we marched in what felt like an endless circle. For nearly three hours, up and down we went, over rocks and roots. My knees, my feet, and one of my hips really hurt, but we couldn’t find our way out. A young woman, blonde, pretty, and fit, passed us many times. A golden retriever accompanied her, and each time the woman whizzed by us, she made a perky acknowledgment.

“Humph,” I said to myself, as bright and cheery, she passed us yet again. “I bet she’s doing this for fun and exercise while we trudge on, unable to find our way out.” I’m ashamed to admit this, but I found myself resenting her buoyant energy.

Finally we found our way back to the parking lot, where cold water waited for us in the car. As luck would have it, we passed by the perky blonde’s car, just as she and her dog were getting into it. “Phew!” She called out. “I didn’t think I was ever going to get out of those woods.”

So she was lost, too. My resentment instantly vanished, and although my knees and feet were sore, I laughed right along with Shannon and Clif.

Then off we went, to Shaw’s Supermarket for strawberry Popsicles. With the windows rolled down, we ate them in the car in the parking lot, and those Popsicles certainly tasted good. Liam got the last bits on our sticks, and it seemed as though he thought they tasted good, too.

All in all, a fine day, even though we got a little lost in the woods.

 

STILLMEADOW DAYBOOK BY GLADYS TABER

picture of bookThanks, yet again, to Nan and her blog, Letters from a Hill Farm, for introducing me to the books of Gladys Taber, who lived and wrote at Stillmeadow, an old farmhouse in Connecticut. The book I am reading, Stillmeadow Daybook, was published in 1955 by J. B. Lippincott Company, and in it Taber chronicles each month of the year on her farm. She starts with April, which is a good place to begin when gardening is central to your life. In her forward Taber writes, “There is something about the task of preparing vegetables that gives a woman a reflective mood. I wondered how many tons of potatoes I had pared since we put our roots down here in these forty acres of stony Connecticut soil.”

Taber loved the white farm house, built in 1690, from the moment she saw it: “[W]ith its steeply pitched roof, little windows with bubbly glass, and worn lintel, I knew I belonged to it.” But how Taber came to own this house and live there is a little unconventional. Taber, her husband, and her daughter were living in New York City as were Taber’s good friend Jill, her husband, and two children. Both families wanted a house in the country, “a week-end place where we could have outdoor living in peace…where vacations and holidays could be, we felt, very economical.”

So the two families pitched their fortunes together, bought the house, and, amazingly enough, they all got exactly what they wanted. As the children in both families grew and went to “various schools and colleges,” Stillmeadow was the home they could come back to. Even more amazing, over the years, the friendship between the two families didn’t fray with the tensions that must inevitably come with joint ownership. According to the book’s forward, when both Gladys and Jill became widows, they decided to live together at Stillmeadow, which became their “refuge and a haven.” Jill and Gladys had gardens where they raised all their vegetables, and they raised dogs as well. At one point they had thirty-six cocker spaniels, although in Stillmeadow Daybook, they are down to eight cocker spaniels and one Irish setter.

If Stillmeadow Daybook were only about country living—cooking, family, and food—then that would certainly be enough. To me, these are subjects that never grow old. But Taber, a writer and a creative writing teacher, had other things on her mind, too. Her thoughts about poetry—Keats was a favorite—world peace, literature, and other larger subjects are folded into the homely details of life at Stillmeadow, and they bring depth to this charming book. Here is Taber’s take on fiction: “I think novels and short stories will probably be around as long as men can read at all. And there is a great satisfaction to a writer in creating characters which no amount of good reporting could duplicate. I venture to say also that  great fiction illuminates life in a way no other form can do.”

Another thing that impressed me was how much of a foodie Taber was, especially as we tend to think of the 1950s as a grim culinary era in the United States. Taber’s concern with fresh, local food seems amazingly contemporary. “Economics is too complex for me. But I have instincts about supply and demand which I believe in. And I shall always feel a carrot next door is better than a carrot from Ames, Iowa, all things being equal.”

We baby boomers tend to feel sorry for women who came of age before the 1960s, those poor, unliberated things who spent day after frustrating day cooped up in their little houses with their little children, eating Spam sandwiches. While it is true that before the 1960s, the opportunities for women were far more limited than they are now, it is not true that all those pre-1960s women were bubble brains on the verge of a nervous breakdown. And it is arrogant of my generation to think this way. When I read As Always, Julia, the letters between Julia Child and Avis DeVoto, I was struck by what a rich life of the mind these women had. The same was true for Gladys and her friend Jill, and that life of the mind brought a spark to even the most mundane chores, from peeling potatoes to making current jelly. The best thing about the life of the mind is that it can be lived anywhere that there are books and magazines, even on a farm in Connecticut, even in a little house in Winthrop, Maine.

The copy of Stillmeadow Daybook I am reading came from Lithgow Public Library as an interlibrary loan book. However, a quick look on Amazon.com showed me that while Stillmeadow Daybook is no longer in print, it can be purchased used at a reasonable price. I also expect that library sales and second-hand shops might be a good place to find Stillmeadow Daybook as well as any of the other numerous books that Taber wrote.

I am looking forward to reading more of Gladys Taber, and I will certainly be looking for her books at various summer book sales.

Again, many thanks, Nan, for introducing me to Gladys Taber.

 

 

ANDREA’S BRIDAL SHOWER

Herbs on the deck
Herbs on the deck at Joyce's Restaurant

Last Saturday, I helped my daughter Shannon with a bridal shower for her very dear friend Andrea. The shower was held in Hallowell, at Joyce’s Restaurant, upstairs in a long room overlooking the Kennebec River. At one end of the room, there was a grand piano, which nobody played, and at the other end, buffet tables and a bar. In between, tables and chairs for dining. Beyond the buffet tables and bar, there was a small deck, a perfect spot to sip wine and watch the river and admire a lower deck filled with potted herbs.

Joyce’s is a great place for a shower. By the grand piano, there are six or seven funky but comfortable chairs. This is where Andrea sat as she unwrapped presents, and there was plenty of room to make a big circle for other chairs. Andrea got many lovely gifts, and she was appreciative of them all, whether they were large or small. My gift was a Moosewood cookbook and a blue stoneware bowl full of lemon-frosted shortbread. I am, after all, a good eater, and I thought it was appropriate for my gift to literally include food.

Cups and saucers lined up for soup
Cups and saucers lined up for soup

Joyce’s prepared a tasty luncheon, which included a creamy tomato soup with basil. (It was the hit of the shower. My, it was good!) In addition, there were two kinds of sandwiches—chicken curry as well as tomato, pesto, and mozzarella; a salad with mixed greens; a pasta salad; fruit; and cookies for dessert. The service was excellent, too. The woman who waited on us was just the right combination of friendly and efficient. She even cheerfully packaged the leftovers for us, and we felt as though we were in good hands.

I have known Andrea since she was five or six years old. I took care of Andrea when she was in grade school, and Andrea and Shannon have been friends all through the years. Andrea has become an elegant young woman who wouldn’t look out of place in a Fred Astaire movie, and it was both moving and joyful for me to be part of this celebration that will bring her to the next phase of her life. Truly, a wedding shower is a rite of passage, where the next generation takes its place in the continuation of the cycle. I was even more moved when Andrea referred to me as her “third mother,” with her own mom and her future mother-in-law being the other two.

Andrea opening presents
Andrea opening presents

I did manage to slip in a little bread talk with Andrea’s future mother-in-law, who loves to cook. She told me about her own experience with making whole wheat bread, and she confirmed my own hunch about how much whole wheat flour to use—1/3 whole wheat flour and the rest unbleached white flour. It was nice to hear I had it right.

Andrea’s wedding will be in September, and she is marrying a man who has such a talent for woodworking that it goes beyond craft and is firmly in the artisan category. He is also a talented photographer. For her own part, Andrea is an accomplished cook. May they have a long, creative life together.

LOBSTER SALAD AT ESTHER’S HOUSE

Esther's tableOn Saturday, I went to my friend Esther’s house for lunch. She wouldn’t tell me what she was serving. “It’s a surprise,” she wrote by email early last week.

A surprise! All week long I wondered what the surprise would be. The fish dish for which she is so famous? (Pieces of fried haddock smothered with a cheese sauce.) Sounded very good to me, and I was all set for the fish dish. My only concern was that I would go overboard, the way I so often do, and eat too much. Alas, the pitfalls of being a good eater.

But Esther didn’t serve me her fish dish. Instead, she had prepared lobster salad, a huge glorious bowl full, and the lobster was mixed with a little bit of celery and just enough mayonnaise to hold it together. In other words, exactly the way lobster salad should be made. Now, I love all kinds of fish and seafood, but I must admit that lobster is right at the top. Maybe at the very top.

Lobster salad“It’s a little chilly for lobster salad,” Esther said somewhat apologetically when I arrived, and indeed it was a cool June day, albeit a sunny, clear one.

“It is never too chilly for lobster salad,” I said firmly. “It could be a frigid January day, and lobster salad would be just right.”

Besides, Esther’s cozy kitchen was sunny and warm—the way it always is—and with its large wood table and old chairs, her kitchen is one of the places I love best. All around are pictures of her children and grandchildren, and Esther has decorated with lots of miniature kitchen things—little teapots, little cups, a little sifter. “I love small things,” she said.

We started out with cheese, crackers, wine, and some Mediterranean nibbles. Then came the lobster salad, a huge scoop on a salad of mixed greens, tomatoes, and cucumbers. I don’t think I have ever had so much lobster salad at one time.

“Do you want dressing for the salad?” Esther asked.

“No, thank you,” I replied, not wanting anything to interfere with the taste of the lobster. Simply put, I don’t have lobster enough to be complacent about it.

“Did you buy the lobster meat?” I asked dreamily as I ate.

“No, no,” Esther answered. “I got the lobsters and shelled them myself.

That’s the best way of doing it, but also the messiest. Still, the results are worth it—you get more meat for your bucks.

We had our usual good chat, and I caught up on all things Vassalboro, the town where I grew up and where Esther lives. After lunch, we walked around Esther’s yard so that I could admire her flowers. Admire them I did, as well as take a few pictures. I am as crazy about flowers as I am about food.

For our grand finale, we went to Fashions, a consignment shop in Waterville. I get many of my clothes at Fashions, gently used clothes at prices that can’t be beat. Plus, as I tell myself, when I buy clothes from Fashions, I am doing my bit to recycle and save these clothes from going into the landfill. (As I’ve noted before, how we love to justify.) As usual, I found clothes that I wanted, and I bought a top and some slacks for the princely sum of $15.

All in all, a lovely day with a lovely person.