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Tuesday, July 30, 2013: A Gathering at the Little House in the Big Woods

Potatoes marinating with vinaigrette for the potato salad
Potatoes marinating with vinaigrette for the potato salad

August is right around the corner, and the crickets and grasshoppers have begun their late summer songs. I love sitting on the patio and being surrounded by those songs. With the swirl of voices, the backyard feels so alive.

However, there is not much time for sitting on the patio today. My husband, Clif, and I are hosting a potluck gathering for some of the people he works with. One of them even offered to bring lobster for lobster rolls. How could I refuse an offer like that?

Soon, I’ll be making potato salad and getting the house ready. It looks as though the weather is going to be good. Could it be that we will actually have one whole day without rain? Maybe so. After all, August is usually one of the loveliest months in Maine. With the way this summer has gone, all bets are off, but I’m hoping this August will be true to form, and we will have hot, dry days and lovely cool nights.

 

 

July 26, 2013: Bits and Bobs from the Internet

Rain, rain go away. Don’t come back until the gardens dry out. Not too dry, of course. Neither extreme—too dry or too rainy—is desirable. But enough already with the rain. For the first time in the nearly 30 years we’ve lived at the little house in the big woods, our front steps were covered with green mold, and my husband had to scrub them. Here’s hoping that the weekend is warm, but not too hot, and sunny.

From the New York Times: Gary Paul Nabhan writes about drought, climate change, and food shortages. He also lists some commonsense solutions.

From the Kennebec Journal: A piece about the Kneading Conference in Skowhegan, Maine. There’s a real renaissance in grain growing and bread making in Maine, and the conference is a reflection of this.

From the blog treehugger: A description of Ben Greene’s Farmery, an “innovative sustainable agriculture project” where food is grown and sold at the same place. A vision of the future or just another one of those good ideas but…?

From NPR’s the salt: In New York City, doctors in a new program are now proscribing fruits and veggies to overweight patients. Could be the beginning of a promising trend.

From the Portland Press Herald: Anne Mahle’s take on pancakes, with some wonderful suggestions for a berry topping and a syrup. (Ah, pancakes! How I love them!)

From the Guardian: Two excellent pieces that are related. One is about a young mother in England who lived in poverty, had a tiny budget for groceries, and blogged about it. The other is about the rising cost of food. While both feature the United Kingdom, both are relevant to the United States.

Kate’s Birthday: Lunch at Hot Suppa in Portland, Maine

We happy three!
We happy three!

Yesterday, I drove to Portland to meet my friend Kate and my daughter Shannon for one of our thrice annual outings to celebrate our birthdays. Although none of us can remember exactly how long we’ve been doing this—3 years? 4 years? Longer?—we’ve been doing it long enough so that we’ve established a routine. As we are all frugal souls, we don’t like to pay parking garage fees, and we have become expert at finding street parking. (If we eat on upper Congress Street, my favorite spot is on State Street, next to the big churches, where there are often empty spaces.) The birthday girl chooses the lunch spot, and afterwards, we go to Whole Foods, where the parking is free, and we can each get a cup of gelato for $2.50.

This time, Kate, the birthday girl, chose Hot Suppa for her birthday lunch. Shannon has been there several times and recommended it. She did not steer us wrong. Hot Suppa, with its brick walls and colorful artwork for sale, is small but cozy and not terribly loud. The perfect place for 3 women who want to celebrate a birthday. The food is hearty and good. As it turned out, we all ordered the same thing, roasted veggies with pesto on a roll served with a side of hand-cut French fries. Oh my, those fries were tasty—perfectly cooked and very hot. The sandwich, with its medley of  vegetables, was also tasty. The portions were enormous, and Shannon and I could have easily split a meal. Last but not least, the service was snappy and efficient.

Oh, those fries!
Oh, those fries!

Although getting together is the main point of these gatherings, we also like to exchange gifts. Shannon gave Kate a blue necklace, which she is wearing in the photo of the three of us. Shannon also gave Kate a scarf. Often, for birthday presents, I give cards made with photos I have taken of flowers, my obsession. I figure that even if I forget which photos I have given to various people from year to year and there are some repeats, it doesn’t really matter. The cards are ephemeral and are made to be given away. However, this year I decided to go literary, and I gave Kate 2 books by the Maine writer Monica WoodErnie’s Ark and When We Were the Kennedys, both of which are set in Maine. Monica Wood is a real Maine treasure, as I like to say. Not only is Monica a very fine writer, but she also tells a darned good story, whether in fiction, as with Ernie’s Ark, or in nonfiction, as in When We Were the Kennedys. 

Somehow, on these gatherings, the weather is always fine, which makes driving to Portland a pleasure. Over lunch and gelato, we talk about books and movies and family and work. How we’ve all come to look forward to our birthday gatherings. These small celebrations add pizzazz and spice to already good lives.

 

 

After MIFF: Includes Recipe for Marinated Tofu

Well, the Maine International Film Festival (MIFF) is over, and my daughter Dee has gone back to New York. The day is cool and rainy, and you know what the song says about rainy days and Mondays. The Maine International Film Festival is always a blast—seeing lots of movies, getting together with friends, spending time with Dee—and while it is somewhat hectic, it is also a let-down when it is over.

To let ourselves down easy, my husband, Clif, and I went to Railroad Square Cinema last night—admission is $5.50 on Mondays, which is a steal, as Dee likes to say. We saw Museum Hours, a slow but lovely meditative film about art and friendship and loneliness and death. Because the pacing is so deliberate, this is not a film for everyone, and indeed my friend Joel Johnson really disliked it. But for people who don’t mind very slow films and who love art, this is a fine movie. The gist of Museum Hours is that art never stops. It is everywhere, if you just take the time to look. It was filmed in Vienna, Austria, and much of the movie takes place in the Kunsthistorisches Museum. I would actually like to see Museum Hours again, and if it comes to NetFlix Instant View, then I will.

At MIFF, I watched “only” 10 movies, which was perfect for me. Enough to feel as though I was a part of the festival but not so many that I felt like stale popcorn when the festival was over. Dee and Clif, true movie buffs, saw 24 movies—that’s a lot of movies in 10 days—but neither of them looked particularly tired at the end of the festival.

In between going to the movies, we managed to cook some healthy meals. This is July, after all, and despite the lousy weather—either too much rain or too much heat—the vegetables are growing. One day, I made a stir-fry using Farmer Kev’s zucchinis as well as his sugar-snap peas and garlic scapes. There is no recipe for this. I just season to taste with some soy sauce, white wine vinegar, sesame oil, and a little sugar. I don’t use a lot of the seasonings. I mostly want to taste the fresh vegetables.

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Another day, I marinated some tofu in teriyaki sauce—Dee is a vegetarian. Then, Clif cooked it on the grill. We have grilled many things, but never tofu, and we were pleased with the results. I bought extra-firm tofu, and the sauce and the grilling gave it a nice flavor. Because this was his first time grilling tofu, it did not come out exactly as Clif would have liked. Next time, Clif will grill the tofu a little longer so that it is crisper, and we will cut the tofu in smaller chunks so that it can be grilled on all sides. Nevertheless, the tofu was very tasty, and we will be grilling it again sometime soon. We’ll have it with new potatoes and corn on the cob. August, high summer, is right around the corner, and Clif and I are hoping for hot, dry days and cooler nights, perfect for eating on the patio.

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And as I have no Monday meetings in August, we just might see a few movies at the square. After all, Dee is right. A movie for $5.50 is a steal.

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Maine International Film Festival, 2013

This week has been hot, hot, hot, but what fun we’ve had at the Maine International Film Festival (MIFF). As always, when so many films are offered, there are strong movies and not-so-strong movies. That’s just the way it goes. Naturally, the assessment of what’s good and what’s not is clearly a matter of taste, and as my friend Joel Johnson has pointed out, every film at MIFF has its advocate.

While movies are the point of the festival, a nice bonus is the old friends we see—some of them only once a year. With those friends, often over pizza and beer and fries, we talk and argue about the movies we’ve seen. These conversations add zest to an already lively event.

I’ll be seeing one more movie tomorrow night, but my two favorite movies so far are Fruitvale Station and Tu Seras Mon Fils. It’s my guess that Fruitvale Station will receive multiple Academy-Award nominations, and it will be returning to Railroad Square sometime after the festival. Both movies are dark and powerful and beautifully acted. (I’ve provided links to both of them for more detailed descriptions.)

MIFF 2013 has been very well attended, and as I watched people hurry to get a seat or stand in line for popcorn or talk in groups after a movie, I was reminded, yet again, of how much Railroad Square Cinema and MIFF, both now a part of the Maine Film Center, bring not only to Waterville but also to central Maine. Over the coming year, Clif and I will make every effort to support Railroad Square and Maine Film Center. We live on a modest budget, but there are some things worth spending money on, and Railroad Square and MIFF certainly fall into this category.

Scenes from this year’s MIFF:

A train passes by Railroad Square Cinema
A train passes by Railroad Square Cinema
Here's looking at you
Here’s looking at you
Clif at MIFF
Clif at MIFF
The Square at dusk
The Square at dusk

 

 

 

 

 

 

July 14, 2013: A Hot Sunday Afternoon

img_3800-1Today, I spent the afternoon reading on the patio. It was actually hotter outside than it was inside our home, but on a summer day without rain, I can’t bear being inside. So during the hottest part of the day, I stretched out on two patio chairs and alternately drowsed and read Bee Wilson’s excellent Consider the Fork, a brisk look at how cooking implements have changed through the ages and have thus changed the way we live.

The ice in my iced tea melted down to nothing. The humming birds went from the bee balm, now in bloom, to the feeders. In the woods, crows called, and branches snapped. A grasshopper landed on my foot.

While I was drowsing on the patio, my husband, Clif, and our daughter Dee were at the Maine International Film Festival (MIFF) in Waterville. They have full passes and will be seeing four movies today, which means they started at noon and will return some time around midnight. On such a movie marathon day, someone has to stay with the dog, and that someone is me. I like movies, but not four in a row. Clif and Dee are the true movie buffs. Compared with them, I am a piker who likes no more than two movies in a row, and truth be told, one at a time would be just fine.

The film festival runs until next Sunday, and I’ll get a partial pass, which will allow me to see ten films. During the week, there are “only” three movie slots per day, and this suits the dog’s schedule better than four movie slots. Because of MIFF, I probably won’t be blogging much next week.

Today, before it got really hot, I made a batch of gingersnaps for us to take to the festival next week. We always pack a cooler full of food and drinks to take to MIFF. Better for the budget, and, gingersnaps notwithstanding, better for the waistline. (We also bring fruit and healthy sandwiches.)

However many movies a person sees—10, 20, or, yes, even 30—the Maine International Film Festival is quite an event, one that really perks up Waterville during the summer. There are people on the street, and they talk and argue about the movies they’ve seen. Directors and actors come and give talks about their films.

Coinciding with the film festival, the Colby College Museum of Art will be having a grand opening of its new addition, the Alfond-Lunder Family Pavilion.

Readers, if you live within driving distance of Waterville, there are lots of reasons to go there this week.

July 12, 2013: Bits and Bobs from the Internet

From the Portland Press Herald: Poor children in all of Maine’s counties are getting free summer meals. It’s too bad we need such programs, but since we do, it’s good they are expanding.

From the Grist: Nathanael Johnson takes a look at genetically modified food in an attempt to come up with a reasoned conclusion about the pros and cons.

From Nation of Change: Sarah Grothjan writes about a thriving farmers’ market in Athens, Ohio, which also happens to be one of the poorest counties in the state. Grothjan thus disproves the myth that only affluent communities can have thriving farmers’ markets.

Again from the Portland Press Herald: Jeff Peterson’s recipe for grilled tofu and coconut rice. Sounds delicious, but I would probably marinate the tofu in some kind of garlic, ginger, soy sauce marinade.

From Letters from a Hill Farm: Nothing in particular, just the whole darned blog. Nan writes about food, her farm in northern New England, books, movies, and anything else that strikes her fancy. She had taken a break from the blog, but now she is back, and how good it is to be reading her posts again.

From the New York Times: Going on vacation? Melissa Clark has some suggestions for simple dishes to prepare. Those of us who prefer staycations might even want to try these recipes at home.

Backyard Report—Thursday, July 11, 2013

Let me come right to the point: So far, it has been a terrible summer. Either it has been so blindingly hot that even I can’t stand it—and I can take a lot of heat—or it has rained so much that I haven’t been able to figure out when to feed the potted plants. I keep waiting for a few sunny days in a row for the soil to dry out at least a little, but those sunny days in a row haven’t happened yet.

Instead we have rain and drizzle followed by more rain and drizzle. On the plus side—the gardens and the potted plants aren’t exactly thriving, but they are holding their own. However, the slugs and the snails positively love this weather, and in all my years of gardening at the little house in the big woods, I have never seen such a slimy onslaught. Each day, I go out with a jar of soapy water and pluck the snails and slugs from my plants. Irises seem to be their perennial of choice, and all those little munching jaws have made ribbons of many of the leaves. I have literally picked hundreds of snails and slugs in the past two weeks, and it gives me no pleasure to kill these creatures that are, after all, just trying to make a living. If only they would make their living in the woods. I would never bother them at all. But when they come into my garden and start ripping through my plants, I have no choice but to go on the offensive. Gardening is not for the faint hearted, that’s for sure.

I am hoping, perhaps vainly, that today the weather will clear at least enough to allow me to have lunch on the patio. I’m not asking for sun, mind you, just no rain. Then as I eat my pita-bread sandwich stuffed with Farmer Kev’s lettuce, raw slivers of his turnip, some of his roasted beets, and a sprinkle of feta, I will hear the whirr of the hummingbirds’ wings and watch these tiny birds come to the feeders filled with sweet water. The nuthatches, chickadees, and finches will fly to the feeder filled with sunflower seeds, and sometimes it will seem as though the forest positively flutters with little wings and darting bodies. Then I will think, how lucky I am to live in such a beautiful place, rain or shine, summer, spring, fall, and even winter, when patio days are just a memory from the past season.

Scenes from the backyard on Thursday, July 11, 2013:

My little nemesis
My little nemesis
The herbs are holding their own
The herbs are holding their own
Temple dog guarding the backyard
Temple dog guarding the backyard
Brave little pepper, trying to grow in the gloom
Brave little pepper, trying to grow in the gloom
Bee balm nearly in bloom
Bee balm nearly in bloom
Orange day lily by the bird bath. This plant came from the yard of the farm house where I grew up.
Orange day lily by the bird bath. This plant came from the yard of the farm house where I grew up.
My wet feet
My wet feet

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Perfect World, Real World

img_3761In a perfect world, I would get up at 6:00 a.m., maybe even earlier. By 8:00 a.m. my blog post would be written, and if it was summer, I would be ready to pick berries. Then, there would be a flurry of jam making, with plenty of time to do some house cleaning, work on other writing projects, and make a wonderful dinner.

In a perfect world, my house would be as clean as my Franco mother’s house, so clean that if I won a session with a professional house cleaner, then that cleaner would wonder what in the world she should clean. (This actually happened to my mother.) Closets would be organized and clothes and linen would be sorted. The dishes in the hutches would get a regular cleaning, instead of a last-minute washing-up of only the items that are absolutely needed at an given time.

In a perfect world, my volunteer work at the food pantry and the library would blend seamlessly with my housework, cooking, and writing. Need someone to head a committee? No problem. I am your woman. Need someone to head the whole darned organization? Ditto!

In a perfect world I would be so organized that I would be the marvel of Winthrop. Lists, flow charts, and Staples would be my best friends. Filing systems would not flummox me, and anything involving packets or keeping track of checks would be child’s play.

In a perfect world, all the food we eat would either be organic or local. My food budget would be twice as big as it as now, and cost would not be a worry.

Oh, the things I could accomplish if I lived in a perfect world. But in reality, the above scenarios are nice fantasies with a grain of truth.

In the real world, I am an insomniac who seldom gets to sleep before midnight and often it’s more like 1:00 a.m. Getting up at 6:00 a.m. is out of the question. Because of this, my blog posts are seldom done until 11 a.m., and there is no berry picking in the morning. In fact, there is usually no berry picking at all. Somehow, with just one car and our busy schedules, there never seems to be time. And no berry picking means no homemade jam.

Then there is housework. As my mother once observed, “Laurie, your house is good enough.” And I knew just what she meant. I’d never win any prizes for cleanliness, but neither did it disgust my mother to be in my house. Fortunately, she did not poke around my closets, hutches, or drawers. Otherwise, she might have changed her assessment.

In the real world, I do volunteer at the food pantry, and I am a trustee at the library, but I will never agree to be the head of either the food pantry or the trustees. I just don’t have the temperament to do so.

Or the organization. Filing continues to baffle me, and it has taken me months to come up with a system to compile packets for the library expansion. As for flow charts, well, let’s just say that I’ve never made a flow chart.

Let’s face it: In the real world, I never do as much as I would like to do. It’s frustrating at times, but that’s the way it goes.

But here’s what I do accomplish: I keep the house and the yard reasonably clean. I make all our bread and muffins. I cook dinner almost every night. I do volunteer work at the food pantry and the library. I’m not organized, but I work hard, and when I say I’m going to do something, I do it. (Barring unforeseen circumstances, of course.) I write blog posts regularly and work on other writing projects.

I regularly ride my bike. I invite family and friends over for meals and celebrations. I buy as much local and organic food as our budget allows.

It’s a patched-together kind of life, and I expect many women (and men) have this same kind of life. They do as much as they can, knowing they will never be able to do as much as they want. Is it enough? Funny thing that in the end, it usually is. This doesn’t mean we shouldn’t try to improve and learn new skills. Of course we should. But there are only so many hours in the day, and we all have to pick and choose how we are going to fill those hours.

So let’s hear it for the real world and stop longing for the perfect life, which doesn’t exist and never will.

Lisa’s Wedding (And Sam’s, too)

img_3747On Saturday, we went to a wedding at the Samoset Resort in Rockport, Maine. The bride, Lisa Clark, is the daughter of Beth and John Clark, two good friends we have known for years and years. So many years, in fact, that I can remember Lisa when she was knee-high to a grasshopper, as the old saying goes. Once, when Lisa was quite young and energetic, my husband, Clif, and I were invited to the Clarks’ house for dinner. While John and Beth were busy putting the finishing touches on the meal, Lisa and her older sister, Sara, stayed with us in the living room. Flip, flip, flip. Lisa entertained Clif and me by doing gymnastic rolls on the rug.

Finally, Sara, in a big sister voice, said, “Calm down, Lisa.”

Lisa did a few more defiant rolls, but then she did indeed calm down.

How moving it is to go to a wedding when you have known the bride since she was a child, to have watched her grow through the years. Lisa is still energetic, but she is now a confident and capable young woman. Lisa teaches in the Bronx, and as John put it, she is a fourth-generation teacher. To honor her literary family, many of whom are published authors—this includes John—Lisa gave books as wedding favors, books that were written or published by her father, her aunt, or her grandmother. They were wrapped in brown paper and bound with a ribbon that is also a bookmark.

Unfortunately, I don’t know Sam Barrese, the groom, but during the wedding ceremony, I learned that he is keen on home-improvement projects, that he works with his hands as well as his mind. (Sam is an engineer.) As if the books and bookmarks weren’t enough, Sam came up with his own wedding favors—beautiful stained-glass roses to be used as window ornaments. Best of all, he made them by hand. Ours is hanging in a window in our kitchen.

The wedding ceremony was held by the ocean. Lisa and Sam were married by a sea captain who quoted Shakespeare’s Sonnet 116:

Love is not love
Which alters when it alteration finds,
Or bends with the remover to remove:
O no! it is an ever-fixed mark
That looks on tempests and is never shaken..”

The day was very hot, but we found a place in the shade. Behind Lisa and Sam, the deep blue ocean sparkled. Occasionally, a sea gull flew by, and some time during the ceremony, a squadron of dragon flies arrived, dipping and darting over the couple, and it seemed as though they were nature’s attendants, there to officiate the wedding.

Congratulations, Lisa and Sam! Many you have many, many happy and creative years together.

Lisa mugging it up before the wedding
Lisa mugging it up before the wedding
John and Lisa
John and Lisa
Lisa and Sam exchanging vows
Lisa and Sam exchanging vows
The wedding favors
The wedding favors