For some reason, last weekend turned out to be a flurry of having friends over and eating out.
Our merriment started on Friday afternoon when we invited our friends Dawna and Jim over for wine and appetizers.
We tried to solve the problems of the world as we sat around the dining room table, sipped wine, and nibbled on appetizers, but of course we didn’t have much luck.
As we talked, our jade plant glowed in the sun. Clearly, Jade was on our side. She, too, wonders what the heck is going on in this country.
On Saturday morning, we headed to Waterville to the Maine Film Center for the Nigerian movie Mami Wata, the final movie in the wintertime film series Cinema Explorations.
This wonderful movie is set in a remote African village where the water deity Mami Wata is revered even though she is mostly absent. When a stranger is washed up on the shores, the power balance shifts, leading to conflict and death. This fable of a movie was filmed in an impressionistic way, which adds to the power of the story. What a fine way to end the film series!
To celebrate the successful film series, our friend Joel, who coordinates Cinema Explorations, joined us for brunch at one of my favorite restaurants, Front and Main.
I had some delicious ployes, Acadian buckwheat pancakes popular in northern Maine. Front and Main makes ployes a little thicker than is traditional. but my, my, they were tasty.
Then, on Sunday, to kick off the Academy Awards ceremony, we went to Tj’s Place in Winthrop for drinks, snacks, and pizza.
I had a pomegranate martini, and it was excellent.
Clif ordered onion rings, which he said were properly cooked and delicious. (Dee and I aren’t fans of onion rings.)
We also had pizza.
Afterwards, full of food and drink, we headed home to await the start of the Academy Awards ceremony. Two of our favorite movies—Flow (go Latvia!) and I‘m Still Here (go, Brazil!)—garnered awards. Best picture of the year went to Anora, a film about an exotic dancer. It was not our favorite movie of the year. We all felt that it lacked nuance and focused too much on the explicit sex. Granted, the subject lends itself to this treatment, but didn’t Anora have any other qualities or interests that didn’t involve sex? Say, model trains or mahjong? It seems not. Ah, well…we were apparently in a minority about this movie.
Still, all in all, it was a good night for independent films, small movies with relatively small budgets, and we are always in for those kind of movies.
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And Now the Moment You’ve All Been Waiting for…the Return of Snow-Gauge Clif
Longtime readers of this blog always look forward to the first Monday in March, which brings the return of Snow-Gauge Clif (aka my husband, Clif). Each Monday, Snow-Gauge Clif will grab his trusty red yardstick to head outside and measure the depth of the snow. He’ll continue to do so until all the snow is melted, usually sometime in April.
Here he is, on March 3, this first Monday in March, in the front yard.
Snow measurement: 18 inches
And here he is in the backyard, which gets more sun than the front yard.
Measurement: 12 inches
Will the snow be gone by the beginning of April, or will it be gone by the end? We never know the answer to this nail-biting question. Each year is different. So stay tuned for the Monday adventures of Snow-Gauge Clif.









Clif is looking dapper and well! At least it’s been snowier than last year, so we’ll see how it goes. Remember when we’d have 3 feet in the yard in March? I am predicting March 25 for melt out here, but that may be optimistic, wishful thinking. 😉
I, too, thought he looked dapper. I expect it’s the white hair and the black coat. 😉 I do remember that 3 feet of snow. Keep me posted about your melt out.
It’s a treat to read a post about normal activities, Laurie (or at least as normal as possible in the circumstances). And your pictures are terrific.
Oh, thanks! One of the things tyrants are good at is robbing people of fun. So having fun seems like an act of resistance. 😉
Oh, I like that way of thinking!
Lady, you had some good eats this past weekend. Impressive. We are going to hit mid 50’s in the middle of the week so that will melt some of our snow. Glad you had such a good fun filled weekend, and here’s to no new additional snow to be measured.
Not planned. Somehow it just came together. Yes, fingers crossed that there’s no new snow. But this is, after all, March in northern New England. 😉
Sean Baker directed and wrote Anora. Have you seen The Florida Project? It’s another of his movies. I think TFP is exceptional.
Actually, The Florida Project is one of my favorite movies. To my way of thinking, it has all the nuance missing from Anora.
Nice to see Clif out and about. But to hear t5hat you don’t like onion rings, I’m not sure what to say.
As for character development in exotic dancers, I’m not sure what to suggest. We don’t seem to have any in the shop so I deduce that coin collecting and stamps hold no attraction. I do remember seeing some films in the late 1970s, mostly from Germany, where washing machine repair men were treated in a similar one-dimensional manner. I soon went off them and returned to films that involved shooting and spaceships.
Alas, onions do not agree with me at all. I can only eat them if they are simmered for a long time. My suggestions for exotic dancers was tongue-in-cheek, but surely they must have interests that go beyond work. Who knows? Maybe coins? 😉
Definitely not coins – I’d have noticed. I’m average age for a coin collector and most of them are men.
I will defer to your wisdom and experience.
Of coins, or exotic dancers? 🙂
Both!
🙂
I must agree that any movie without model trains in it is seriously lacking merit. It is why I got to so few movies.
You have hit the nail on the piton, as we Franco-Americans would say. What movies need are model trains to perk them up. 😉
Now if your president was a model railway enthusiast, life might be calmer. Model railways induce a peaceful view of the world.
Maybe we should start sending him tracks, train pieces, and various little buildings to get him going. Who knows? It could be the turning of the tide. 😉
Great idea.
A delicious week – Yay, Clif!
Yes, yes! Many thanks.
Love the return of Snow Gauge Clif. And you appetizers look fab!
Always a good time when Snow-Gauge Clif returns.
You packed in a lot of fun this weekend, Laurie. I’m glad you got to spend time with friends and enjoy yummy food and drink along the way. We didn’t watch the awards this year. I’m glad to hear a few of your favorite films took prizes.
An action-packed weekend, that’s for sure. Very nice to have favorite films win awards.
Hi Laurie, It sounds like you’ve had a great week! 18 inches of snow. That’s a lot of water when it melts.
The pomegranate martini looks delicious. I usually have a pornstar martini. It comes with a shot glass of prosecco.
the appetizers look healthy and delicious 🙂
We watched Anora and I agree with everything you have said here. We were surprised it scooped up so many awards. I think she also scooped up best actress. Well all I can say is that the panel must be skewed. All she did was have sex, scream and swear.
We also watched ‘CONCLAVE’ which we agreed had far more depth and the thought provoking ending an unexpected twist. In our opinion that should have won far more
The Substance with Debbie Moore was also thought-provoking and the acting far FAR better.
That about sums up Anora. My suggestions were were definitely tongue-in-cheek, but surely exotic dancers have other interests. We also liked Conclave and The Substance.
Yep, it lacked depth 🙂 even for a RomCom
Yes, unlike his previous film The Florida Project, which really did have depth. Weird.
Hoorah for the snow gauge! The only film I had seen was Conclave which I loved.
BTW – can I ask where you found blackberries in March?
We liked Conclave, too. As the other movies are available on streaming, I will be interested in hearing what you think of them.
My first look at ‘Snow Gauge Clif’ – what fun 🙂 ! Put work aside yesterday and spent all day at the Oscars (10.30am – 2pm here!) enjoying it immensely – yes, we needed something normal! Hoped for ‘Conclave’ . . . had not seen ‘Anora’ . . . but loved that ‘Flow’ got a statue . . . well, it coming from Latvia with my birthplace being Estonia next door may have had something to do with it, but 🙂 🙂 🙂 !
I am glad you like Snow-Gauge Clif. He is quite the favorite with readers. Yay, Latvia and yay Estonia! Who knows what will come next with independent cinema. Love it.
You do know how to live. Finding beauty everywhere.
We are lucky to live in a rural area that offers so much.
I think I remember some slight anxiety earlier this year that Snow Gauge Clif wouldn’t have any snow to measure! Those eighteen inches are quite nice; it will be fun to see how soon it leaves you.
I’ll happily take your share of the onion rings — I do love them.
Time will tell!
Mmm…that pomegranate martini looks good!
“Say, model trains or mahjong?” 😂 great line
Thanks, Mary. I was being a wise guy, but surely exotic dancers have hobbies and interests outside their work.
Hi Laurie, it was lovely to see Snow Gauge Clif again, and his snow gauge always reminds me of just how much snow can fall in your part of the world.
I liked your lovely food, (especially the buckwheat pancakes) AND movies ..now that is a good way of enjoying the winter!
The return of Snow-Gauge Clif is always a happy event. And those buckwheat pancakes were so good.
I love onion rings, although seldom get to eat them. I enjoy the defiance in this post: what the heck, we will enjoy ourselves, no matter what. That’s the spirit, Laurie. If we allowed our local politics to seep into our bones we would be eternally deflated and miserable.
Yes! As I have mentioned in other comments, having fun seems like an act of defiance, especially when it involves independent cinema, locally owned restaurants, and friends.
So much happening in your part of the world.. Happy for you. We are dealing with an atmospheric river these days hence no sign of snow what so ever.
We are lucky to live in a rural area that has so much happening. We are grateful.
Dear Laurie
Your food looks great. We got hungry seeing it.
And we’ll try out the pomegranate martini.
Enjoy the winter
The Fab Four of Cley
🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂
Many thanks! The food was delicious, especially the pomegranate martini.
We guess. We suppose, we try one tonight.
That sounds a great weekend! Friends to to have good conversation with, interesting films, tasty food (and drink!) – Perfect! And welcome back Cliff – good to see you again.
Yes, quite a weekend. Usually we don’t eat out that much, but somehow it just worked out that way. Fun, though.
Like buses treats sometimes come along together.
Reports on joyful events, good food, an intriguing Nigerian movie, and the return of Snow-Gauge Clif. An excellent post. I doubt that anyone suggested a few assassinations to solve the world’s problems.
Thanks, Derrick! How true, and as I have mentioned in other comments, since tyrants never want anyone to have fun, doing so seems like a form of resistance. 😉
Keep up the good work of enjoying yourselves despite the best efforts of outside sources.
Many thanks! As tyrants never want anyone to have fun, enjoying ourselves seems like an act of resistance.
It’s supposed to get warm and rain here for a couple of days. Maybe your snow will magically disappear.
Or, we’ll all be encased in ice.
I hope we aren’t encased in ice. That’s the worst.
What a fantastic-sounding weekend. And that food looks incredible!
Many thanks! The food was delicious.
I’m stunned over your Jade plant, Laurie. It’s HUGE!!! Mine probably isn’t as old as yours because it’s way smaller. Still, I do like its poofy leaves and the ease of caring for it. Wow, that’s a lot of snow! I’m eager to see how long it sticks around for you.
Jade is indeed huge. She is 15 years old and came to me as a tiny sprig in a yogurt container. She has certainly grown. Yes, it will be interesting to see how long the snow sticks around.
Surely, you’d think Anora would like to spend her downtime away from work…I’m with you: small budgets, big stories but that doesn’t seem to sell. Hooray for the return of Snow-Gauge Clif and that martini looks goooooood!
Yes, surely Anora was more than the sum of her work, but viewers got very little sense of this. That martini was delicious, and it’s great to have Snow-Gauge Clif back with his trusty yardstick.
Good friends, good conversations, good food, and good entertainment–it sounds like a wonderful weekend. An antidote to the painful realities!
We’ve missed you, Clif! I hope you allowed him n extra large portion of onion rings. He earned them!
He might need another sustaining portion on our “cheat” day, when we let ourselves have junky snacks. 😉
Yes, what WERE Anora’s hobbies? Her political views?How flat of a presentation. I would be shocked if I was described only by my career as a social worker. For a variety of reasons…
The more I thought about it, the more I think model railroads would have been a fun, quirky hobby for Anora. She and the kid could have gone to a model railroad show, where he picks up her enthusiasm for model trains. In between having sex. they could have started setting up their own railway village. The possibilities are many. 😉
Lol! You sound like an author, riffing off on a fun tale!
😉
Looks like you got a lot of snow ! We had a few snow showers but the snow melted very soon. But we did have lots of rain. At the moment it really felt like Spring, we had 16 C° and there are a few more warm days to come. But next Tuesday the rain will be back.
For Maine, it’s a little below average for this time of year. We simply don’t get as much snow as we once did.
And we had more than average rainfall for almost a year and a half !!!!
Cliff looks very dapper. I love the mystery of snow (when will it arrive? when will it leave?). It looks like you’ve been having a lot of fun in life. 🙂
Many thanks! I, too, love the mystery of snow. We certainly did have fun last weekend. Somehow, everything just fell together.
haha – snow gauge Clif! Funny. To me, the snow always looks beautiful but I don’t have to live in it.
The food you had looked delicious!
The Latvian movie sounds interesting. I recently read a book about Latvian Mums who had immigrated to Australia post WWII and what they went through.
A lot of my blogging friends get a kick out of Snow-Gauge Clif. His measurements indicate that spring is just around the corner.
Flow is a beautiful movie that movingly illustrates we are all in the same boat.
I willlook ‘Flow’ up. Thanks
One of my favorite movies of the year.
Ah! So happy to have met Snow Gauge Clif! Now I know 🙂
Looks and sounds like you all enjoyed a phenomenal weekend filled with all the good things. I hope the week ahead is equally wonderful!
Now you know about Snow-Gauge Clif, who’s a little favorite with my blogging friends. 😉
You did have a whirlwind weekend. Your photos of food always look so appetizing. And thanks for sharing your thoughts about Mami Wata. I wonder if I can find it on the internet. Hmm. And thanks for the Snow-gage Cliff photos. Lol. Is it gone?
Not yet! 😉 Pictures tomorrow.
What a wonderful weekend and the food, appetizers and drinks look amazing!! I missed out on watching the Oscars and most of the movies this year, but hopefully I’ll have a chance to catch up. I’m so far behind on my reading, tv shows and movies. We only have a few snowbanks left in the yard and I’m looking forward to seeing when your winter ends and patio season begins.🙂
With streaming, you will have plenty of opportunity ro catch up on movies.our snow is much higher than yours, but it, too, is going down. Hard to believe patio season is around the corner.
It sounds like you had a wonderful weekend of good food and movies! No real snow here yet this year, but there is still March and early April for a surprise. Daffodils are blooming. The trees are a little behind this year. They may know something we don’t.
I know what you mean about surprises in March and early April. We get them, too.
I missed this post earlier Laurie, welcome back Snow-Gauge Clif! It’s lovely to see the sunlight higher above the trees and your jade plant looks very happy! 🌞🍃
There he is! For how much longer I do not know.